Helps relieve and reward. Although some say that sometimes coming with a heart leads to more disappointment, only noble and authentic people understand that they cannot do things differently.
Helping others stand up can be difficult. Sometimes, first of all, it is necessary for the person to know that he needs help and that helping is not about weakness, but about strength. Secondly, it involves investing effort, time and excitement. And these are guys who end up being really heavy.
- We know that it is not easy.
- That sometimes they fill us with phrases full of wisdom that everyone likes to share on social networks but that in the end we forget.
- Because many do not even see these primary needs.
In some cases it is our own family or friends who need support to get up. A person suffering from depression, for example, needs understanding, support, and presence.
Some of our teens may be going through a difficult time, experiencing difficulties in school or experiencing their first emotional disappointment, something we don’t realize because we don’t have time, because we have our eyes fixed elsewhere.
The heart needs the eyes to see and the inner freedom to feel, we must move away from superficiality to see what is essential, so that this natural goodness towards the human being allows us to help those who need it.
It’s possible that all your best friends talk to you with a smile and your words may seem very cheerful, however, just look closely to get an idea of the tear that’s about to sink.
Intuiting other people’s emotions is a gift that is installed in our brain through mirror neurons and empathy. We all come into this world knowing how to recognize basic emotions such as sadness, anger, love and fear.
Sometimes, however, whether by social, educational or personality influences, there are those who focus all their intuitions on themselves. In “I feel”, “I need”, “I want”. It is from these thoughts that the person structures his life.
To live with your heart you don’t have to be naive as many people think, to be sensitive is not to be stupid, and to want to help others get up is not to let them trampl us, I don’t think so. . Those who build their lives with their hearts have the following very clear aspects:
Whoever offers his hand to those who need it does so for nothing, he does it because he is part of the way of being, because he feels it and expects nothing material from it, nor does he want favors or recognitions in return for what he has done.
The greatest reward is to feel useful and put into practice that inner feeling that defines us, if we turn our backs and pretend not to see someone’s need, there is some internal dissonance, that would be contrary to our values.
Someone can have several college degrees. Speak five languages, have multiple cars and have the most sophisticated mobile in your hands.
Still, all these things are useless if you don’t see that your mother, for example, needs help because she has an illness, that your spouse is lonely while she’s still by your side, the world collapses next to you while you only care about the material world.
There are many who think differently. Being good tires, this disappoints us most of the time. Still, we must be very clear that the right people know and should know that there are limits, that they also have the right to say enough when they need them.
Because good is offered with freedom and intelligence, we know that acts that are done with the heart are great investments, help us to quickly emerge from grudges full of freedom, emotions and well-being.