Sometimes two souls meet like the oldest stars in the sky, almost without knowing how we enter the same gravitational field where almost everything fits, we speak of mental attraction that goes beyond the physical, because it captures and dazzles us, two souls are caress and sail in the same direction.
This type of attraction that goes beyond the skin and delves into other types of processes is actually more common than we think, however, this does not mean that the weight of physical appearance is no longer important, in fact, as social psychologist Solomon Ash demonstrated. in their “Implicit Personality Theories,” people still think that everything that is beautiful is good and therefore beneficial.
- When we talk about attraction.
- We have to keep in mind that most of these mechanisms are governed by unconscious processes.
- The physicist is our cover letter and a great announcement.
- We know it; However.
- This ad is not always the perfect or foolproof bait.
- Biology.
- Chemistry and our psycho-emotional needs shape this gravitational field where we approach certain profiles in which sometimes.
- Almost without knowing how.
- Magic and a life project arise.
We are not necessarily talking about “soul mates” but about connected personalities, in perfect harmony and capable of creating a strong and enriching bond. An interesting and nuanced topic that we want to reflect with you.
We’ll start by talking about a curious fact that should invite us to reflect: according to a study by Dr. Raymond Knee, director of the University of Rochester’s Social Psychology Laboratory, more than half of people believe that twin souls exist. that is, that people are destined for each other and that this type of attraction transcends what, at first glance, is understandable.
In the conceptual vision of the soul mate, the aspect of mental attraction is undoubtedly a basic pillar, how does this same author explain to us through articles such as “The Science of Soul Mates”?(In free translation, “the science of the soul mates”), this kind of attraction would go beyond the simple mental processes associated with all the values, needs and affections to reach a much more spiritual field.
It is clear that, from a scientific point of view, this approach is not valid, the fact that there are those who leave things in the hands of fate does not mean that they must be under our control, because true mental attraction does not include magic. or destinations, but the set of two mature personalities who, in addition to eternal love, also seek a present relationship, a traveling companion to fight every day. .
Dr. Raymond Knee is still immersed in the study of the social conception of “soul mates” today. In your department, we can conduct a test to evaluate our opinions on the subject. After passing this test, we’ll know if we belong to one of these groups.
Mental attraction in the latter case responds to an agreement on interests, passions, values and the ease with which we negotiate, with which we understand ourselves to reach agreements without waiting for the other person to do so, what about us?Understanding otherwise could create deep frustration.
Is physical attraction a little strong, intense, out of control?We know and we love it. However, the true magic that characterizes these more authentic and stable relationships is an ideal balance between the two dimensions, in which mental seduction is every day the most obvious, living and exciting ingredient.
So, if we stop to go a little further in the keys of true mental attraction, we can see that in fact there is very little supernatural about it; but many emotions, instincts, chemistry and that kind of intuition buried in our unconscious that tells us that it is the person who, right now, is the best thing for us.
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Likewise, mental attraction is triggered by the challenge, there are people who make us feel alive, who challenge us with the gaze, with their knowledge, with that subtle combination in which the familiar mix with the unknown, gradually form something that moves us. , fill our minds to hopelessly enlighten our hearts and let our souls be imprisoned.