“Is there no greater pleasure than the praise of the wise and capable?
(Selma Lagerlof)
- Remember that for this maxim to work.
- We must first be honest.
- Life is not worth going through renting for no reason.
- Just to be good.
- If you don’t like the skirt your friend is wearing.
- Don’t say “how cute.
- Where did you buy it?” If you think your friend should be more diligent in his work.
- Don’t tell him: you’ll be promoted to boss in no time.
You can think about how you can make the other person happy by telling them something important, but you really feel. For example, instead of renting your friend’s skirt, thank them for your friendship. Instead of telling your friend he’ll be promoted. , it would be better to say, “It’s great to have you by my side when I need you.
Did you know that with these simple phrases you will brighten up a loved one’s day?It must always be like this!
Praise is a very used tool for seduction and also to convince or manipulate someone, so you have to be very careful with what we rent and how much they praise us.
Praise makes us feel better and increases our self-esteem
“But how pretty do you have your hair, Maria, do I have to say that your car is very well taken care of?”Esther, are you the best cook in the world, Carlos, what are the company’s chances of having an employee like you?How many times have we said something similar and without feeling, just to please the other?
We have to find a balance between silence and talking too much, in this case between not congratulating and? Plant flowers? Everywhere, without thinking about our words.
Being a moderately renting person can be very beneficial
Praise can serve two purposes: to please others and to convince them to do something. It is proven (but take the test yourself) that we are more attracted to those who treat us well and say nice things to us than those who never rent us, even when we had the best dress at the party or broke the sales record in the company.
On the other hand, there is a theory that when we offer something (a gift or beautiful words) to someone, they automatically feel guilty about us; If, for example, you congratulate a potential customer on their appearance or clothing, they are more likely to buy what you have to offer.
But be careful, don’t get me wrong with what you’re saying, if a beautiful woman comes to the store where you work, you shouldn’t wear her beauty to your advantage, it’s best to focus on things like your style, your clothes, your good taste, etc. , otherwise, will you get the opposite effect?She can be mad at you! (and obviously won’t buy anything).
Everybody knows how to praise, we do it all the time. The secret is when the time and place are right. And don’t forget to always use the right words. Don’t spend two hours listing each of the things you like about each one, your best weapon will be a complete composition (to give a name) on that person, so you only need one minute to have a good effect on the other.
Also consider how the other person will get the compliment, because if we can think it’s good, but who doesn’t like to be told nice things?Are there many who feel uncomfortable with a compliment. This does not mean that you should stop doing so, but that you must focus on your attitude and your feelings.
Don’t get too excited about your compliments and don’t be silent about them, increase the recipient’s self-esteem and improve the impression they have on you, as we are at a time when we are more focused on the negative than the positive, recognizing the merits of others is already an act of rebellion.
Finally, be careful not to cross the thin line that differentiates true praise from an act of manipulation or attempt to convince something. Describe your intentions from the beginning, and open your eyes if someone praises you too much?Maybe he wants something.