The energy that our relationships emit determines us. We live in a world where the emotions of others infect us, where the magnetism of the gestures, words and movements of others can captivate or disturb us, human beings are tied by these invisible fibers that condition us in many ways, but you do not always realize it.
At first glance, these ideas may seem both strange and fascinating, it should be noted that in recent years, and with the advancement of the study of emotions and kinesthesia, new areas of interest have emerged that deserve to be mentioned. It’s a job known as “Body Intelligence” or body intelligence.
“When you’re excited about what you’re doing, you feel a positive energy. ?Paulo Coelho. ?
According to this theory we should be more aware of our inner energies, those that adhere to our body and that we do not always recognize, so when we talk about ‘energy’ we mean above all those emotional states that limit or limit expanding as human beings, and that, in some way, we also project into others.
However, there is an interesting aspect that arises from this theoretical perspective, most of us do not know that we live in a world inhabited exclusively by these fields of emotional, mental and body energy, in addition to the equipment, in addition to a stage work with your workers and furniture, in addition to a beautiful house with some luxuries and comforts, is there a network of emotions that permeates everything?
Every cell, nerve fiber, neurological network and every tissue in our body needs energy to function. Human beings are orchestrated by a network of impulses. This is where our neurons communicate with each other, forming certain brain electrical waves based on what we do. think or feel at every moment.
On the other hand, there is something that is more than obvious, our moods enter the scenario in which we find ourselves, we only talk about work scenarios and some houses, we all realize how, when crossing the threshold of a friend’s house or starting a new job in a certain place, there is something imperceptible that makes us uncomfortable , which discourages our mood.
Emotions, especially those that result from stress, tension and anxiety, can become very easy. Psychologists call it the “law of exchange” and it is characterized by a change in our mental and mood caused by the attitude and emotional states of those around us. Can this psychic temperature result in more costs than benefits: physical exhaustion, low motivation, distorted thoughts, discomfort?
The energy emitted by our relationships creates a certain atmosphere, depending on how this energy field is (enriching or disabling) will undoubtedly determine our well-being or discomfort, the psychologists specialized in this area say that the objective would be to work the law. of uniform energy exchange, in other words, to create an emotional reciprocity from which we all benefit.
This goal is undoubtedly the most desirable in any work organization, in every family, kinship, school environment, etc. Now, to achieve this, we must start with ourselves, and this is where the intelligence of the body can also help us.
We all want to enjoy satisfactory, fluid and meaningful relationships, however, sometimes we encounter some frictions. Communication with our partner, children or colleagues may have been a little more complicated lately, in our daily tasks and actions we can also see that we are less productive, less creative.
The energy emitted by our relationships is not limited to others, our relationship at work and our physical or mental activity is another dynamic that requires a lot of energy (motivation, interest, positive attitude?) That’s why the idea is to use all our emotions. and mental states in our favor to enjoy what we do. We also want to improve our personal relationships, have a positive impact on others and create enriching energy environments.
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Last but not more importantly, there is one detail that we cannot forget, the energy we project on others is the same energy that we end up receiving, if I offer tension, discomfort, bad gestures and disinterest the same thing happens to me. that emit our relationships comes from what each offers the other. We invest in ourselves first to give our best.