If there is one thing that has changed radically in recent times is the way to initiate romantic relationships, the procession, for example, is an endangered species and has even disappeared in some cases, the culture of speed has invaded even the most unexpected terrains. including love.
Speed is one of the defining characteristics of much of the relationship in today’s world, it seems that the procession is no longer necessary, however, there are many couples who end up lacking emotions and magic, that is, because of the lack of romance. .
“Love does not need to be understood, it simply needs to be demonstrated. ” – Paulo Coelho-
The court is not unique to human beings. Most animal species have courtship rituals, although they instinctively gather almost exclusively to mate and have offspring, they do not do so without a preamble, the function of this procession is to communicate, synchronize and prepare the ground biologically to ensure that fertility is as good as possible.
In humans, on the other hand, the procession has lost a great lot of prestige, it is considered an unnecessary ornament. There is no longer a conquest of love in the strict sense, but signs of cross that give rise to a relationship whose destiny is almost always ephemeral, often they are not even sure to love each other. What are these lawsuits that are about to happen?Anything from the past today? Here are some.
Flowers are a universal language and are an essential part of the procession of love, when someone receives flowers as a gift, without celebration or commemoration, he also receives a direct message of love, they are a flattery and, at the same time, an elegant way of expressing interest.
Giving flowers requires a little courage these days, for many it is a symbol of sentimentality and they even think that it could generate rejection, perhaps an apparent rejection because it is difficult to look with bad eyes at such a beautiful gift, it also takes courage because they mark a turning point: they openly declare that there is a loving interest in the other, and therefore they are always a show of vulnerability.
There is so much fear of rejection that many are looking for excuses not to express directly their interest in someone, mobile phones allow to maintain intermittent attention, if all goes well the device is ignored. If there is tension or if the material does not leak, the eyes turn to the mobile phone to escape the situation.
Turning off your phone and storing it can be a nice gesture of seduction, this means you’ll put all your interest and all your attention on the person in front of you, it also means you don’t play hide-and-seek and you know what you want. When you want to convince someone, there’s nothing better than getting the person to see and feel like it’s important to you.
Today, it is very common for two people involved in a romantic relationship not to know exactly what kind of bond unies them, it is assumed that everything has to happen and that giving a name to the relationship somehow limits the possibilities or leads to a compromise. However, leaving open the meaning of the relationship is not really a good idea, because there is no more favorable reason for misunderstandings than that.
Expressing a direct interest in someone does not mean that they will increase each other’s expectations, or that they will live an episode in the style of ‘Fatal Attraction’, on the contrary, defining the relationship clearly helps to ensure that there are no reasons to feel anxious or make erroneous assumptions. Expressing what you expect from a bond is a way to build trust and allow everything to flow more spontaneously.
Uh, do I like you ?, it doesn’t always express what you really feel or want, it doesn’t say much to the listener either, it’s one of the standardized expressions that sums up the idea that you want to have a relationship with the other person, but they don’t make much more sense than that.
Beautiful and meaningful words will never go out of style, many people sincerely admire each other, but they don’t say it, either because they’re not used to expressing it, or because they’re afraid to outdo themselves, or because they fear that the others will assume a position of power. There should be no such fear. During the procession, the beautiful words must be a constant, nourish, nourish and magically give a relationship.
The important thing about cutting is that it creates a special atmosphere in the relationship, not only is it a precedent that makes it more magical, but also establishes patterns of affection and respect in the bond, it saves the tenderness that makes us so good. , especially in a time when affection is so scarce, so perhaps the procession is one of the ancient customs worth recovering.