Once upon a time there was a very beautiful and charming rose, how wonderful it was to know that it was the most beautiful rose in the garden, however, she realized that people looked at her from afar.
One day she realized that there was always a large black frog by her side and that’s why no one came to see her up close, outraged by the discovery, ordered the frog to leave immediately. The frog, very obedient, said, “Okay, if that’s how you want it. “
- Soon after.
- The frog passed by the rose and was surprised to see the withered rose.
- With no leaves or petals.
- I said.
- “Wow.
- You’re so bad.
- What happened to you?”The rose answered.
- “Since you.
- ” I’ve left.
- The ants eat me every day?”could I never be the same again?.
- The frog only replied.
- “But of course.
- When I was here.
- I ate all these ants and.
- Therefore.
- You were the most beautiful rose in the garden.
- “.
Moraleja of history
We often despise everyone for believing that we are more beautiful than them, more beautiful, or that they simply do us no good. We all have something special to do, something to learn from others or teach, and no one should despise anyone.
Society has been divided into classes, because belonging to a certain social status gives the feeling of feeling superior or inferior to others. The truth is that while looking at someone over the shoulder is quite common today, we must try to feel the same and with the same value as others, no more or less.
Knowing and valuing our value is important to make us feel good, balanced and to build healthy relationships. We’re no more or less than the others. The feeling of superiority is a ballast of the same magnitude as the feeling of inferiority. These complexes are the mark of insecurity.
Despising someone who thinks he’s superior is a sign of exaggerated self-esteem based on inconsistencies with himself. It is a way of compensating for the anguish caused by self-percibial deficiencies, by highlighting the qualities in which we excel or believe in exceling.
These people are characterized by thinking that they are perfect, that they are rigid in their beliefs, that they are easily angry and that they are emotionally unstable, they are also liars (because they want to maintain a false image of themselves). , very competitive, and surround themselves with people of lower status, intelligence or ability, because in this way they praise themselves. As a result, they adopt arrogant and superb attitudes, such as that of the rose with the frog.
In fact, it can be said that the superiority complex are the aftermath of a poorly resolved inferiority complex; and tend to appear in the same people under different circumstances. We see that this is quite obvious, a person who perceives himself inferior in certain respects does not need to proclaim himself superior. If you’re skilled and valuable in something, reality will show you. Correct.
It is especially important to consider this because we all absolutely have a duty to fulfill others in this life. What we will not learn from our neighbour, we will not learn from anyone, for each, in his individuality, is unique and indispensable.
For all this, it is better to be a frog and contemplate our environment by performing our tasks, being calm with ourselves, facilitating and enjoying our life and the lives of others. Being beautiful or not being, like pink, depends in large part on what we give to others and what we let them give us.
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