When we really love ourselves, we stop blaming ourselves for our mistakes and start learning from them so that we can become much better people than before. And then, finally, we become able to see the true meaning behind everything that happens to us, we understand the secret of happiness.
It is when we stop limiting ourselves because we think we are not good enough, and we decided to take the first step towards our dreams, that life begins to clear up a little, that is when we stop thinking that the problem is always with us. , that we get rid of all those currents that have imprisoned us, and finally we can live to the fullest.
- It is when we understand that the one who hurts us is so hurt that we can.
- In fact.
- Forgive and feel true compassion for others.
- For ourselves and for life.
- And so we can move towards our freedom.
- You perceive yourself.
- You accept and reveal yourself.
- That life begins to make sense.
- And that happiness appears that you are looking for so long.
But, after all, what does it mean to be yourself?The truth is that society has shaped us in such a way that, in many cases, we do not even know who we really are, and being lost to oneself is, I would say, the main reason for all misfortune.
The point is that demanding from us, or others, any form of perfection, is a safe path to anxiety, as we see the world in which we live grow and take possession. To be yourself is not to act as expected. of you, it’s not acting thinking about what he’ll think of you, and above all, it’s being able to stop comparing himself.
When we stop comparing ourselves, we stop getting frustrated by being different and learn to love who we really are. To be yourself is to be able to undress all the masks that you have adopted all your life to be accepted, not to be ugly, to conform to the rules imposed by society.
It is when you understand that you have nothing to do that displeases you, that it hurts you, and that you do not need to be perfect, that you understand happiness in its broadest sense. We fear that when we assume our own identity, the people around us will no longer love us.
And so we are afraid of being rejected, excluded and lonely, and so we continue to live our days before. But I tell you, from experience, when you give up this insecurity and assume your spontaneity, you will attract even more love to your life.
You don’t have to take a role to love yourself, because better than to be loved is to know that you’re loved by someone who’s really capable of seeing you in essence and still being by your side.
And then you can smile whenever you feel like it, cry when your heart is tight, just scream to get out and talk about your pain without fear of it being misunderstood. When we look at each other and accept each other, the outside world loses all power to influence us.
And not relying on the acceptance of others, not having the day altered by emotions that are not yours, and not letting yourself be told what is the best way for your life is actually to be able to live in fullness.