“Emotional maturity is realizing that I don’t need to blame or judge anyone for what’s happening to me.
Anthony de Mello
- Maturity is usually associated with age and years of chronological life experience; However.
- When it comes to emotional maturity.
- Age can have little to do with it.
- Physical maturity often precedes emotional maturity.
To mature means to understand that there is no greater love than self-love, to learn and accept what life presents to us and to move forward.
Emotional maturity does not come out of nowhere; requires work, effort, goodwill and desire to look inside and get to know each other better, head and heart in perfect harmony. To mature means to face reality as it is, often much more painful than we would like.
Here are seven characteristics of emotionally mature people
Most of us are very afraid, especially when it comes to letting out ties and letting life flow.
To think that the past was better is very painful; prevents us from letting go and letting go.
Emotionally mature people know that life is much better when we live in freedom, so they detach the most from what doesn’t belong to them, because they understand that being stuck in the past prevents us from closing cycles and healing our emotional wounds.
Erasing the pain of our past is absolutely necessary to advance our emotional path. Weeds grow rapidly; If we don’t go out, we won’t see what happens next.
Emotionally mature people know the importance of living the present, overcoming and accepting what happened. What has happened has already happened; we can’t change Learn from your mistakes and move on.
If we lose contact with our interior, we do not deviate from it, but we let the negative of our past interfere with our present life, it is very painful.
“That’s why, when we know enough about our pain, we’ll lose the fear of looking inside and heal our emotional past to go further in life.
Emotional maturity helps us better understand our own feelings and those of others. Emotionally mature people have difficulty writing and thinking about their opinions or how they feel.
“To mature is to pay attention to what you say, to respect what you hear, and to meditate on what you think. “
Mature people’s mental clarity contrasts with the laziness and mental chaos of immature people, so emotional maturity helps effectively solve everyday problems.
Stop complaining is the best way to make a change
Complaints can catch us in dead-end mazes. Emotionally mature people have already learned that we are what we think. If you act more and complain less, it means you’re growing emotionally.
Do you want to live unhappy? Complaining about everything and everyone.
Emotionally mature people respect themselves and others. They have the ability to communicate in the best possible way with others; they can listen, speak and exchange information. They learned to look at each other with generosity; We all have different values, but we want to be accepted and happy.
We learn from our mistakes; failure allows us to see the paths we must not follow.
Mature people are not punished by limitations, they simply accept them and try to improve, they know that not everything always goes the way we want, but every mistake is a good opportunity for personal growth.
Emotional armor is a thing of the past. It is very important to have commitment, love, self-confidence and believe in people. Don’t be a perfectionist and don’t expect the perfection of others. Forget disagreements and forgive, including yourself.
“Enjoy timeshare the same way you enjoy time alone”
Emotional maturity means taking control of your life, having your own world view and your ambition to succeed. By developing emotional maturity, life becomes a pleasure and not an obligation.