“Your silence makes me uncomfortable. When you come up and say nothing, I see in your face that you don’t like to see other people love me and are nice to me.
When I talk about every little achievement, I feel like you’re not happy and even feel bad. Sometimes he even disguises himself and shows a false joy, which he doesn’t really feel.
I wish I didn’t notice, because I suffer. I’d like to escape meetings with friends when we’re together.
If I could see things differently? If I could see that my little conquests, people’s affection for me, have nothing to do with it, that doesn’t mean it’s better or worse than me, a lot of people like it too, need to learn to be satisfied. with what you have and what it is.
It saddens me because he’s getting hurt. I’m happy with what I have and what I don’t have, I don’t compare myself to anyone and I keep going, I know there are more beautiful and rich people?I am who I am and I feel so good. I don’t want or envy what others have.
But he doesn’t see things like me, he always asks everyone to punish himself, would you like to be able to help him?
“The silence of the envious is full of noise. “
? Herman Hesse?
Perhaps one day you can reflect on this aspect of your personality, evolve and improve as a person.
I try to get out of that little by little and without him noticing, our relationship is extremely toxic and suffocates me, especially when we’re with other people, I need to think before I talk so as not to hurt her, it’s not that good for me?
I wish you were a safer person and didn’t compare yourself to anyone
? They look up and down; don’t miss any details about how we dress, how we behave, etc.
? They need the approval of others.
? They like to criticize and judge
? They can’t have enough and they’re not happy with anything, they think others are luckier and get everything they want.
? They are not creative and often copy each other.
? They rejoice in the failure of others
“Is envy a declaration of inferiority?
? Napoleon?
There will always be envy around: in a group of friends, at work, among your neighbors and even within your family, do not let your negativity infect you.
? If you’re a neighbor or acquaintance, don’t let this affect your life. Go away; there’s no need to argue and get bored.
? If you’re a colleague, treat him like a colleague and nothing else, don’t talk about your personal life and surround yourself with colleagues who appreciate you.
? If you’re part of your group of friends or family, try to understand it and enjoy socializing with others. Don’t lose a group of friends to an envious person.
Be aware of everything that is happening and don’t get carried away by other people’s feelings of envy.