We live a life in which we are socially conditioned to look only on the negative side, the barriers that prevent us from seeing beyond, obstacles that, to be overcome, require exceptional learning and character, perhaps in your life, as in mine, you only concentrate on finding solutions and often find strange, right?
The thing is, when we try to overcome these obstacles, we don’t have as much confidence as people, as human beings, we don’t think we have the right tools and options to solve this situation, which are inside, in your heart Blame?You don’t trust your power, your enormous inner potential.
“Is self-confidence the first secret of success?
-Ralph Waldo Emerson-
When it comes to solving problems we usually let go, we continually seek to overcome ourselves by following others who mark our environment, without listening to us, and in the end we become copies of ourselves, we also try to look like our idols. and our models of people, believing that they represent and have what we don’t have. What’s going to make us happy?
Why is this philosophy a mistake? Because the person you must want to emulate is yourself and only seeks to improve and expand your essence, your potential as a human being, life prevents us from overcoming ourselves and having the opportunity to realize, once and for all, that we have everything. you need to trust each other.
We are different, so each of us will solve the same problem differently. It’s good and healthy to have references, inspirations and masters of life to take what suits you best, but never forget to be like them. It’s best to focus on yourself and avoid comparisons.
In my life I have learned that the key to being able to overcome and break any barrier in my daily life is to know myself, know who I am, learn to discover my natural talents, and know how to use them to accept my flaws, honor them, and understand that I am not perfect. And if I don’t know how to solve any of these problems, I’ll have to be humble enough to ask for help.
“If you don’t fight for what you want, don’t regret what you have
-Anonymous-
Each of us, including you, is an extraordinary being, only you haven’t stopped yet?Do you want with your heart? And take the first step. Get your trust back. You are a capable person full of vital talents; you have to carry the adventure of life.
Humility and attitude. Know what you want and why you want it, find what defines you as a unique and different human being, this can mean your ultimate goal. Instead of worrying too much about the difficulties and obstacles of your life, stop understanding its qualities and increase your own vision.
Go into what defines you and explain it. Don’t let negative thoughts stop you from being the best you can be; who has the solution and the power to overcome any obstacle he wants.
Most see obstacles; few see the goals; the story records the successes of the latter, while oblivion is the reward of the former.
-Alfred A. Montapert-
Image courtesy of Christian Schloe.