Who was the first to show affection in this way?
Someone asked me, looking for a rational and logical way to explain the kiss: what’s the point?What survival instinct do you obey?
- Kisses are instruments of communication.
- Understanding or disagreement between two people.
- Aren’t we just talking about kisses on the couple’s lips.
- But also kisses between grandparents and grandchildren.
- Parents and children.
- Friends and brothers and sisters?.
Is the bad side of kissing addictive? -Joaquin Sabina-
Kisses can express what we can’t say in words, they can be the culmination of an explosion of emotions, the beginning of a moment or the end of a story with an expiration date.
Every moment has its kiss and the subject has begun to be studied, but how to analyze it from a scientific point of view ?, why do we conclude that it is addictive?
Studies on kissing and forms of communication in different fields (physiological, evolutionary, psychological), have gathered all the knowledge and research on kissing around a science called pathology.
This strange word, very different from the seductive verb “kiss”, refers to the term Filema (kiss) in Greek. This shows us, among other things, that he? Kiss? It is millennia old, and this in ancient times existed as a gesture of respect or worship.
It seems that the first references appear in Hindu texts from 1000 BC, although only over time has it gained more relation to sexuality.
The answer to the question of where the kisses come from goes back to Cro-Magnon’s man, a time when mothers chewed food and passed it on to their newborns directly from their babies’ mouths, in a feeding gesture, but this involved concern. well-being, care and love.
Anthropologists and biologists continue to study their meaning and what may be related to partner selection. Is yarnology a discipline that still has much to explore?
Why are we talking about addiction? Thanks to research on the subject, the effects that occur in us have been made known, and are not limited to communication and the expression of affection.
An example of this is that kissing relieves pain as they release hormones and chemical elements into the brain related to feelings of well-being, relaxation, tranquility and relief.
Kisses activate our nervous system by creating a living current that transmits a lot of information to our heart, muscles, saliva and breathing, and more than thirty muscles work together to achieve this activity, activating and toning the skin.
Scientifically, kisses can be considered addictive because they release a lot of neurotransmitters and hormones such as adrenaline (feelings of pleasure, arousal, confidence), oxytocin (feelings of well-being, pleasure and comfort), endorphins, testosterone and estrogen (related to sexual desire).
All these substances are naturally powerful enough to lure us into kissing, kissing or being kissed.
Do the lips have many nerve endings and are transmitters and communicators of pleasure and well-being?According to some researchers, a kiss has almost the same effects as a gram of cocaine.
Finally, recent neurological studies talk about the stimulation of mirror neurons in this activity, which is directly related to the manifestations of empathy.
Are there people who don’t like to kiss? Yes, they do. There aren’t many “Kissers” people. This may be due to a variety of reasons for education, temperament, shyness, or past bad experiences.
Between couples it will be a work in communion with the other to find the methods and formulas to transmit affection and desire.
For some ancient cultures, the mouth was a door to the soul and a somewhat menacing kiss that can penetrate or steal our spirits, in some countries they are forbidden or poorly seen in public, or even require adulthood to give or receive.
The truth is that kissing does us good, kissing is sharing, transmitting, translating emotions, is one of the most powerful ways to show love and that, when combined between two, forms the perfect element.
Kiss? An enchanted trick to stop talking when words become superfluous. -Ingrid Bergman-
About 95% of the population cannot make a mistake when using it naturally, expressing it in its own way.
Kisses, kisses on the cheek (two or three depending on the country), kisses on the hands. . . vary by nationality, popular culture and traditions.
Despite germs, lost souls and “kissing diseases,” this is something that, fortunately, does not seem to present us with great risks.
With your partner, join your lips and close your eyes, love your child and cover him with kisses, receive the affection of a family member or friend and let your cheek be the perfect blank canvas for it, say goodbye to a brother sealing a?See you later? on your forehead? any way of kissing is perfect, depending on the person’s moment.
If we think in terms of couples, the shapes can be endless. Direct kisses, tight, soft, tongueless, tongueless, upper and lower lip, in the corner of the mouth, bent kiss?In the end, the important thing is to connect and achieve those sensations that we talked about earlier.
The feeling of sharing a moment and an emotion is what makes the kiss perfect and we can do it every day.
Does strengthen ties with loved ones by showing affection on the cheek or forehead create an addictive sense of well-being and closeness?
Kissing is a wonderful addiction worth living
“Kissing is the way out of honesty? -Paul Geraldy-