There is no formula we can use to prevent something from happening that bothers us and is uncomfortable, because happy and sad experiences are destined to happen at a specific time in our lives.
It is impossible and useless to always want to be well or always make events smile, because the reality is that the facts that made us repent have also taught us something: we are able to get up one after the other and, at the same time, at the same time, we are equipped with tools to withstand falls.
- “There is no happiness.
- And I am sure.
- That it can be achieved by escaping or fleeing into the past.
- “Jorge Bucay?.
That is precisely why we must always face what bothers us and find a way to rectify this situation, we must not forget that if we have the strength in us to endure evil, we are also resilient to face it and shut it down completely: remember that what is not well connected always manages to escape from where it is, and this has consequences.
The temptation to escape from what bothers us is almost always very great, as human beings we have certain instincts and they tell us that when we perceive a threat, the answers are two: escape or fight. The threats we face are neither lions nor snakes and therefore require a more complex response.
It is quite understandable that, if we are shattered inside, we felt that the simplest solution is to run away, when we want time to put things back in place, in those cases all we want is to be emotionally healthy again. without risking further injury.
“When things break, it’s not the fact that they’ve broken that prevents them from being repaired again. Since small pieces have been lost, the whole shape is now distorted, has everything changed?. Anonymous?
Collapse necessarily implies an internal change that we do not initially understand and that completely separates us, this change becomes uncomfortable if, moreover, it cannot be given the importance and time it deserves: it must be reconstructed and this leads to a process that one is obliged to follow so that pain does not recur. We look back.
We have to follow the process because if we try to escape it, sooner or later we will realize that he has always been with us, even if we try to ignore the process thinking of something else, we will not have eliminated it and it will still be there.
Filtering will probably give us the perfect perspective so that we can look at what’s happening to us differently, and that’s good, what happens is that in the end we’ll always get to the same point: say goodbye to pain, find the will to listen carefully and decide to be brave in the face of the situation that doesn’t allow us to stay on our way.
When the time comes and we will have learned to face the uncomfortable, we will have learned much more than we initially thought: in any case, we will be strengthened by these circumstances that we face in life, in all its depth. .
If, on the other hand, we allow what blocks us to stay present, we will have our hands and feet tied to the ground and, even if we think we are moving, we will not. Fear the problem, but do nothing to overcome it, for it is the brave one who decides to face his beasts.
“What do we expect from a life with our hands tied behind our backs
with cowardice in disguise,
with an ear-to-ear smile on every slide
hopefully everyone will get in luck?
-Pablo Benavente-
Everything that we find uncomfortable and that we leave to chance is repeated, waiting for us to make a decision and feel good again, he will continue to call us when we feel weak and will not leave until we say goodbye completely: something that involves crying, yes necessary.