As we all know, there are some mills that have always used wind for a specific purpose, such as grain, for example, and are characterized by harnessing the direction and force of the wind to produce force, so that the energy produced is useful.
Metaphorically, throughout our lives, we are forced to build windmills that help us cope with the wind, which does not always move as we would like, in fact many times we want to stop it and we cannot: sometimes seeing it hits us in the face and prevents us from seeing clearly, other times it pushes us to where we do not want to go.
- How many times have you been through a difficult time?It sounds like a lie.
- But it’s real: there’s no storm that has no end and no wind that doesn’t stop at any given moment.
- After the whirlwind comes calm and the plan we’ve drawn up is of paramount importance.
“Obstacles should not be stopped. If it hits a wall, don’t turn around and don’t give up.
Try to figure out how to climb it, cross it, or avoid it
? Michael Jordan
When adversity takes hold of us, we feel that we live in a constant shame that prevents us from achieving our goals and being happy, this happens, for example, at a time when a disease attacks us or we suffer a personal failure, filling us with despair, sadness or helplessness No one can escape adversity at any time in their lives.
Knowing that no one escapes, we must know that we all have a hero in us, who is strengthened by obstacles, this hero is able to see lights through the shadows and find forces that we thought we did not have.
To see a point of hope among all the dismay, it is good to first learn to separate the main obstacle from all these little inconveniences that make it more difficult. Once this is done, it will be easier to build the right mill that will keep us in balance when you blow against the wind.
In this sense, remember that the aircraft takes off worse if the wind is in your direction, aircraft pilots prefer to do so by harnessing the force of the wind, so that speed and momentum require less effort. use your opposite position to your advantage.
“A shame is never wonderful. It is an icy mud, a black clay, a painful wound that forces us to choose: submit or overlap.
Does resilience define the strength of those who, having been beaten, have been able to overcome it?
? Boris Cyrulnik
Something like this can be done if we use our innate capacity for resilience, that is, the interior of each person has the means to face a bad time and get stronger with their journey. He thinks that through negative setbacks, we develop tools and skills. , getting an emotional balance.
Resilience helps us to be positive and to understand that if we have overcome the pain once, we can do it again, for this it is good that we work with negative emotions and that we do not try to ignore them directly, because they are also normal to cry, relieves us and makes us recognize that what happens to us makes us human.
Whatever happens, never forget the hero we talked about before and who is in you, who presents himself in the form of courage and overcomes all fears, who does not let the wind drag him down the ground, but rises. And go on. Think that you will get out of this situation, that the cold will pass, because it is in your hands to resist and scare away: normally, much of this fear is fantasy.
Surround yourself with others who give you the warmth you need, which you can hold firmly to overcome the dull noise, of course they won’t leave you alone, you’ll feel welcome until you find your own strength to create new goals. . In the end, they will get to know each other like never before, they will be grateful, and they will know that even the most terrible wind can’t beat them.
There is nothing more admirable and heroic than valuing misfortunes
and relive every blow that should have led us to death?.
? Louis Antoine Caraccioli
It is in the worst cases that we learn most from our limits and, indeed, there is a possibility of falling to adversity, but there is also a way out.