Are there magical people around us everywhere?They are those with which you know happiness, those that help you fly, shine and lighten your backpack. They are people with those with who share complicity, permanence.
Sometimes you don’t have to say, Am I by your side?Because there are still words. Sometimes you get along with a person and out of nowhere you let yourself be guided by the melody of “love me well”. It is a healthy link, clear in its content, open to experiences. Friendship is one of the sincere looks that soothe sadness and help us get rid of the obstacles that arise.
- “There are magical people.
- I swear.
- I’ve seen them.
- They’re hidden in every corner of the planet.
- Disguised as normal.
- Disguise the way you’re special.
- They’re trying to behave like everyone else.
- That’s why sometimes it’s so hard to find them.
- But when you find out.
- There’s no turning back.
- You can’t get rid of your memory.
- Don’t tell anyone.
- But they say your magic is so strong that if you touch it once.
- I’ll do it forever.
We tell true friends with the fingers of one hand, it is a great truth that probably no one can deny, this is normal because we cannot adapt the expectations, feelings, emotions, thoughts and tastes of all the people who go through our lives.
There are people with us who connect in a special way and experiences connect us, serving to support one of the most important projects in our lives: social. As Aristotle said, we are social animals and therefore we need these unions to feel. Complete.
The? It is magical people who have great social and emotional qualities, those who support us, save us and refer us, that is, those who have a social intelligence, a cousin of emotional intelligence.
Social intelligence is defined as people’s ability to build relationships and, according to Daniel Goleman, has two fundamental ingredients:
In short, social intelligence is not just about taking the time to listen to the other person, but about being in tune with the feelings of others and allowing for more intimate contact. Magical people? They are socially and emotionally intelligent, which gives them this status, a gift of expressiveness that attracts others.
In this sense, as we have said, there are relationships that are being forged and increase the possibility of what drives us. These unions unify us to life, encourage us to be better and illuminate the dark areas of our souls.
Although it may seem distant, social and emotional intelligence is within our reach, so don’t rule out the possibility of meeting a “magic person” and, above all, don’t rule out the possibility of you magicing someone. .
Illustrations by Kristina Webb and Anne Soline.