Each of us has a way of relating, a very characteristic model, although sensitive to circumstances, in this way we can talk about people with informal treatment and others with formal treatment, people who quickly show their confidence and others who take a little Good, in another dimension, we can also talk about some people who are bitter about life and others who are experts in making it sweeter.
With the latter it is easy to feel that you are listening to the best of melodies, treat us well and know how to use less aggressive words to criticize, without falling into the temptation to lie, they are sincere, but in a sensitive way. Very different from the others, who only meddle in our lives.
“Do not trust the beautiful words, many have sugar in the mouth and poison in the heart. “
There are people who want us to believe that they are the best thing that has ever happened to us, because they say exactly what we want to hear.
Many times with their praise they ask us for approval or make us feel good, they can even achieve both goals at once, however, when their speech is not sincere, their actions tend to betray them.
For example, someone may tell us that we take better care of children, but then they never let us play with their children. As good as their words are, the truth is that their actions show what they think. However, on some occasions, it is difficult to let them go: although knowing that your words are not sincere, we may be tempted to believe them.
It is as if, for a moment, we forget the evils that have caused us, because their words awaken in us a sense of security and trust so great that it is very difficult to return to reality and understand that they are lying.
If someone’s words indicate a very different place than their actions show, it is likely to end bitterly in their life, and it usually has the following characteristics:
People around you with their words to take advantage of you aren’t worth it, they’re just trying to hurt you or seek your own benefit, so what exists is pure interest, if you feel trapped in the words of someone who makes you feel a repetitive discomfort, you face a harmful person.
Not everyone artificially puts sugar in their words; On the other hand, many sincerely believe in what they manifest when they rent. There are also many circumstances, because there are people who open up when they make a compliment.
Sometimes it’s hard to know how to protect yourself from people who make our lives bitter, especially if, at the same time, nice things whisper in our ears, yet several strategies can help:
We have a responsibility to protect ourselves from the people who upset our lives. If we can impose limits on them, why not us?If we prioritize, it will be much easier to protect and dispose of our time intelligently.
Protecting ourselves from people who seem charming, but who use it only as a blanket, helps us get rid of their poison, however, they gradually become toxic, and they do so so gradually that, when we realize, and accept the commitments they offer us, some of the benefits of imposing limits on them are:
Self-knownness will be your ally in imposing limits on a person who whispers pleasant things in your ears and makes your life bitter, because when you connect with yourself it will be easier to assert yourself.
Don’t let your life turn into hell. Remember that artificial sweeteners exist everywhere, but stopping them is largely up to you, why pay attention to anyone who speaks to us in a beautiful way, but ends up abusing us?