There are relationships that waste time, something very precious that we only appreciate in the critical moments of our lives. Wasting time means wasting something that will never come back. Each of us, on average, has about 27,000 days to live. You have to subtract a third to sleep and another part for the first few years of life, which you don’t remember.
Why do we get involved in time-wasting relationships?Why do we share minutes, days or years with people who aren’t worth it?The answer is extremely complex and, of course, it goes through analyzing each personal story to make sense of it.
- However.
- We can say that we don’t get involved in tacky or time-wasting relationships.
- Because we do.
- It is not about being a selfish person.
- It is about being healthy in your behaviors.
- In your relationships.
- We can give love and be loved.
- But when we waste time.
- We lose the opportunity to enjoy life with another person.
There are people who now waste your time, but who once filled you with joy, life is a constant change and full of phases: you have to accept it and live it, do not suffer more than necessary.
Although we often wanted to maintain appearances, feelings do not fail or deceive, and feelings of frustration and disappointment accumulated in a relationship become a negative mental state compared to the other person, the inability to embrace or embrace, the inability to praise and receive praise, and even in the hidden search for the sound of the most beautiful smile , because it never leaves spontaneously.
Relationships require maintenance, but there’s a difference between maintaining a good relationship and trying to force a bad one that doesn’t make much sense anymore. When you’re fundamentally incompatible with someone, you run the risk of wasting valuable time.
Each relationship you find in your life will have had a different purpose: some will bring out the best in you, others the worst and most will leave you indifferent. The important thing is that it does not limit your ideas about relationships and it does not limit your ideas about relationships. it doesn’t stop you from keeping your heart open.
If there is one difficult thing in human relationships is knowing when to get away from a certain person, when to assume that it is better to be alone at a certain time than to share it simply out of need of company. It’s not a chance to get it back. There are people who make us recover all that time lost because of censorship, insecurities or disloyalties.
There are people who come to help us make up for lost time
Stop wasting minutes, days and years in relationships that take sense away from your existence, you know you’ve wasted your time with someone when you don’t miss them, when you don’t remember the good times without being overshadowed by the feeling of failure and disappointment later. Wasting time means sharing your life with someone you don’t admire or don’t like.
A deteriorating relationship is easy to detect, but very unhealthy, how many times we have to go on an appointment inadvertently, to a meeting, to pay for a trip that ends before it starts, are clear indicators that something is really wrong, but it’s hard to act.
How can you distance yourself without suffering, without destroying every step of the relationship you’ve built?It’s hard, but it’s necessary. Sometimes simply wanting to do that makes us feel instantly guilty.
There are objective indicators that make you think and make an effort to make a decision, some of the clearest and most painful are:
All these aspects are signs that you are wasting your time with this person, whether friend, cousin, brother, partner, parent, depending on the degree of relationship the emotional tension will be greater.
Remember that today it can do you a lot of damage, but then you will breathe easily, this suffering will prolong if you postpone this decision too much.
After suffering, one day someone will come, someone with whom you will feel your life rebuild at the same time as you feel supported, that person can be called friend, colleague or partner.
Then you’ll know you’re not wasting your time when you can express your opinion freely, when the smile floods your face, or when you speak candidly and solve everything without resentment.
Do not miss this opportunity because we all have that right; hope is powerful and the facts it leads are even more powerful.
If you wasted your time with someone, you actually won; was able to put an end to this story. Réessayer. Si’s not right, don’t take as long as last time; it’s the cycle of life.