Lies and lies are two really unfortunate things, they are able to destroy everything in their path, raze the most populated forests and tear down the tallest towers.
The saddest thing about hypocrisy and deception is that they never come from our enemies, nor from strangers, as expected, everything hurts. It’s very. When they deceive us, the worst is not the lies themselves, but what you take with you.
- Lies and lies are largely a matter of habit.
- Are there many people who are qualified in this area? Art?And that keeps everyone fooled in a really amazing way.
As we already know, the usual lie can be a serious psychological problem, these people usually sell smoke at any price, without more stimulating than deception.
Other times the lie can be justified? As an error in the action, but not with intent.
There are those who argue that any type of lie is based on poor quality relationships, but the truth is that human beings, sometimes, generally do not value colors more than black and white.
Lying and deception always have an expiration date, as it takes many circumstances to sustain itself, this ends up becoming a spiral of enormous dimensions that the liar cannot handle.
But if it’s very difficult for a lie to stay in time, it’s pretty normal for us to be fooled, we may have a lot of evidence, but the emotional ties we have with liars are more likely to blind us.
Betraying the people who love you is one of the most heinous acts that human beings can do. It is difficult to overcome betrayal because it has the ability to completely destroy our world.
A betrayed person is more than a wounded person. He is someone who has run out of his north, who has lost his compass, who does not understand, who feels an agonizing confusion, who sees his house collapse, who does not know where to keep his feelings and who is deeply stupid.
Someone who has to start from scratch, rebuild their walls, step back and plug the holes. He’s someone who, mortally wounded, must be resurrected and doesn’t know how.
Over time, it is very likely that the rage and helplessness we feel at first will become pity for anything that has gone away, broken or withered. It is at this moment that we can begin to heal our wounds and appreciate loyalty.
Overcoming this takes time, but to do so we must forgive ourselves and stop torturing ourselves for what we believe we have been able to avoid, so we can make peace with the world and regain trust.
If at some point you’ve been hurt, don’t punish yourself for thinking everyone’s the same, it would be like believing that by winning a lottery day, you’ll win every time you play.
Illustrations courtesy of Nicoletta Ceccoli