Do we all want to find someone whose demons correspond to ours, someone who holds the key to our blocks, with whom we feel confident and open without fear, and with whom we can be ourselves?
It’s better than love because everyone discovers one part of the other without the need for words. Complicity is achieved with these people who catch you to get away from the present, while you think about everything that awaits you.
- There are those who call these people “home” because they give you the warmth of a comforting embrace and the pleasure of gathering the reasons and forces needed to face everyday life and flow with life.
They make you breathe love and smile when they remember that coincidence will always make them meet, wherever they are, through the eyes.
There are looks that say it all and everything is full of looks. What we call complicity is a connection that transcends and is flooded with love; because love is not only love, but above all understanding.
“I still believe that our best dialogue was that of the eyes. Words, consciously or unconsciously, often lie, but the eyes never cease to be true.
If you’ve ever tried to lie to someone with a look, your eyelids have fallen off, your protective curtain has fallen spontaneously, and stays that way until your eyes have regained the obligation of truth.
With words everything is more complex, but even if words try to deceive, do the eyes tend to contradict the mouth?
? Mario Benedetti?
By complicity there is no secret in looks, gestures or hugs. These are the people who realize you’re not doing well, even when you say yes. In fact, they probably don’t even need our confession to know we’re not well. They are not seers, but they see beyond illusions and appearances.
We know that this connection is not pure fantasy, it goes beyond a sincere smile or a look of understanding. A deeper level connection is shared between two accomplices; You are the “perfect match”.
“People think a soul mate is the ideal solution, and that’s what everyone wants. But the true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows everything that stops you, the person who draws your attention to you so that you can change their life.
A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, as they tear down your walls and wake you up with an explosion.
Eat, pray, love (Elizabeth Gilbert)
A soul mate is someone who makes you smile without saying anything, is someone who is here, who does not abandon you, who is proud of what you get and who you are, and who is not ashamed to tell you what you think or to get his attention if he is wrong.
This is not to say that there will be no misunderstandings or discussions, but even a discussion can tear down our inner walls, this only happens when that person is someone who questions you and is not in your life in silence, but someone who fills all your walls. moments tenderly.
Complicity allows us to accept without requests or attachments, without changing our essence and without meeting child or extreme needs.
Vibrations are then built that complement each other perfectly, just as a shared secret manifests itself in a “wink. “The unconditionality of the soul.