There is a story behind each person, thoughts behind their expressions, emotions behind their feelings and a soul under their skin.
Each of us, on this path that is life, goes through moments, experiences and meets people who inevitably leave their mark on a part of us, even those circumstances or people, which we believe would have gone unnoticed, seem to resurface later at some point. way in our lives.
“There’s a story behind every person
There’s a reason they’re the way they are.
Think about it before you judge anyone?
Everything that happens in a certain way influences and colors our experience and our way of feeling, sometimes intensely and sometimes only superficially; Sometimes consciously and sometimes without realizing it?give us lights and shadows, as well as midtones.
So when you look at someone and think they’re behaving unexpectedly or inexplicably, I ask you: what’s the point of giving their interpretation or meaning?
They will understand it only according to their vision, which is nothing more than what is made of their experiences, but what do they really know about each other?What do you know about how you feel?
If you find it hard to go deep into yourself and try to get to know yourself, how do you know what other people’s intentions or motivations are?
We spend half our lives trying to figure them out and almost half judging their behavior, as if it wasn’t enough to take care of us anymore.
Each has its own story and is more sensitive to some aspects than to others; like you, like me, if it’s easy or easy for you to deal with a certain situation or express yourself in a certain way, doesn’t that mean that for the other one it must be like this too?
“The shoe that goes well for one man is squeezed for another; Isn’t there a life recipe that works in all cases?
? Carl Gustav Jung?
“If I were Mary, I’d rest more,” “I don’t understand how Raul doesn’t leave his wife, couldn’t I stand it?” would he be unable to lead a life like Cristina?
Perhaps this person had a mother who constantly censored her and for which nothing was ever enough, and that’s why she needed to do everything perfectly, feeling that she could always improve?Or maybe you’ve had a relationship full of criticism about you and now it can’t show up as it really is?
Would anyone else have desired the affection of his parents to become a constant hunter of love and love, or is he resigned to receiving him?
Is there more than one face in a story and more than one answer to a question?
Is it normal to think that if you were in other people’s situation, you would do things differently?Turns out you’re not that other person, and haven’t you lived your life?You only know a little bit. And I say a little, because sometimes you think you’re going to react a certain way and when you find you’re in the situation you behave in a totally different way?
You have to look beyond the obvious and superficial and keep in mind that each person has his own story; a set of experiences, feelings, emotions, encounters, biological and personal variables, to which we must add the power of the situation, of the context?
Judging blindly, adrift, is useless
We are no one to do that, nor can we expect that in a conversation it is possible to convey the whole meaning of a person; sometimes because the right words are not found, sometimes because when designating certain words, the experience is already limited ?.
On the other hand, listening to the other and considering that it has been shaped by stories, experiences and feelings, will help you try to understand it, and if you can’t do it, it doesn’t mean it’s a problem. problem; maybe because of your story, it’s impossible for you right now.
Remember that behind each skin there is also a person, a strong but also sensitive soul who has his wounds and scars, who has his story.