Why join the gossip? Forget them: don’t make up what you don’t know; If you haven’t seen it, don’t comment!If you haven’t heard it, don’t talk. Bad people who haven’t seen anything with their eyes, but who have invented a lot with their mouths, unfortunately there are still people who have a lot to learn.
There are those who intend to deceive us. This is the truth, even if it’s hard to accept. Do gossip and spreading stories have three types of poison?Because they hurt the one who says, who listens to the person who is the reason for the gossip.
- “You don’t have time to criticize others.
- Listening to gossip.
- Stories and made-up stories exhausts us intensely.
- Even when we are the emitters.
- The evil we do returns to us in the form of toxic things.
- Bad feelings and vitals and social insufficiency.
We must look for what is in our turmoil, set aside discourse and not interfere with what is not for us to speak or express our opinion, in fact, again, we have to remember that before we say something, we have to filter our message at least three times. Let’s look at a little story that perfectly sums up this problem:
“The young disciple of a wise philosopher returns home and says
-Master, did a friend speak of you with malice?
-Wait!? interrupts the philosopher What will you tell me through the three filters?
? The three filters? ? the disciple asks
“Yes, the first one is the truth.
“No. I heard the man talking to the neighbors.
-At least it went through the second filter, which is the filter of goodness. Is that what you want to tell me, will it be good for someone?
“Really not?” rather the other way around
“Oh, go ahead! The last filter is the one of necessity. Do I need to know what’s bothering you so much?
-To tell you the truth no.
“Then?” said the sage smiling?
On one occasion, Carolina Herrera said that if we don’t like something, we can take away the only power it has: our attention, there’s really nothing that can affect us if we don’t give her credit and attention.
Staying away from gossip is primarily about maintaining a healthy attitude towards our relationships, health and self-esteem, because when we hear what others have said, we let it enter our minds.
This is entrenched and ends up destroying the personal and mental order we gain through sincerity, respect, humility, generosity and honor, so we end up forming a kind of emotional and social calculation that generates problems and conflicts within us and in our relationships.
Therefore, it is positive not to allow anyone to tell us gossip or stories that distort our reality and aggravate the way we understand each other with our thoughts, our feelings and respect others and ourselves.