One of the main reasons for human suffering is the idea that we have certain things and certain people as if they were ours, many of us think that work, office, office and their objects, partner, friend are possessions, they are legitimately ours and no one is going to change that. Ledo error.
What we have for us, in fact, is just what we have in us, what was born with us, our body, our minds, our feelings, maybe certain objects that we buy, just our lives. Everything else is part of the world, the moments, the segments of our journey and, therefore, they have no obligation to stay with us.
- Everyone who is with us will remain as long as it is conducive.
- As long as there is reciprocity.
- As long as coexistence serves interests.
- Whatever its nature.
- Even out of love.
- We can be sent back at any time.
- We can stop loving.
- And stop being loved at any time.
- They can steal our property from us.
- Our position rejected.
- Our position questioned.
- As they say.
- Nothing is.
- Everything is.
In fact, no one steals from our partner, nobody takes our jobs, nobody destroys our friendships, just because certain things and certain people we don’t lose, because they were never really ours. What came out of our lives went well with us, but it wasn’t something inside, it didn’t belong to us, or we didn’t even try to keep it. Yes, many of our losses are a direct result of the way we have behaved with them.
Many times our love leaves because there was nothing good here with us and something interested him in another direction. Our friends leave because life itself takes people away from people who don’t try to maintain ties. We lost our jobs because we didn’t, match what was expected of us.
Maybe it’s our fault, maybe it’s not even the case, what matters is understanding that we have no control or power over what’s outside of us, or we water, care for and care for, or we won’t stick together as precious and that makes all the difference in our lives.
Therefore, it is up to us to be the best we can, to give good, to share the truer, wherever we are and with whoever we are, without having the feeling of owning what surrounds us. Then, as we lose what we thought was right, we will be aware that we have done the right thing. In the end, what we need and what’s left in our lives will be all we need to be truly happy.