They say that this is how great classics and works of art are classified because they can be interpreted in different ways, according to the observer. Today I want to share with you a short film that inspired me a lot.
Maybe you’re exhausted, bored or tired of your life. Almost nothing satisfies and its existence seems meaningless. Nothing fills you up and when you think something can bring back your dreams, you realize it wasn’t exactly what you expected.
- Its complexes weigh more and more every day.
- You’d almost dare say you don’t love yourself inside or out.
- For you.
- The ideal would be not to be you.
- Change and polish everything you see as “your flaws”.
- Surely.
- If they ask you how you are.
- Will your adjectives to describe them all be dark and sometimes it seems that you can’t even find the words that define you?.
Exhausted from looking for thousands of options to see if your smile comes back to you, you end up desperately believing that it isn’t, that this life isn’t for you. And you act accordingly, as if you had no right to enjoy and be happy.
That’s how Anton, the protagonist of our story, is. Tired, exhausted and overwhelmed by its complexes? And “defects,” deciding to make a drastic decision to end their suffering and change their existence.
Anton, the protagonist of our short film, chooses, as we have already said, disappear and end its existence, so that your fears do not appear, you will not have to see your flaws and you will not even care about your limits?
Sometimes, even if we don’t make our protagonist’s drastic decision, do we decide to pretend that we are blind and spend our lives without paying attention to ourselves?If I don’t like it, I don’t look; I consider myself bad at such a thing, so I’m going to ignore almost getting to know each other completely.
We can also do the opposite, that we are so concerned about ourselves that we can only see our faults or that which we cannot distinguish ourselves from. The question is, don’t we recognize each other? Accept that we are only defective and keep it. A real sabotage of ourselves, in which we consider ourselves a bag of defects.
We buy things, we stick to dreams, we idealize our future and the people around us, we believe that when we get what we’ve decided to do, we’ll be happy, but will happiness so long-awaited never come?
Happiness is an attitude that is cultivated from the inside out
Happiness doesn’t come with what we buy, with the goals achieved, or because we’re next to someone we love, can we have everything and not have happiness?Happiness is an attitude and, as an attitude, we can all learn it, but always cultivating it from within.
I know people who aren’t so beautiful, not so successful, or so rich or so perfect, but who are really happy. Happy people not only have or realize it, but appreciate and appreciate for all that life has to offer. Can you see it in your eyes? They decided to be happy, cultivate their attitude of acceptance and love themselves.
Happy people are not happy because they have no flaws, but because they have discovered the greatness that exists in each of them, they stopped comparing us to others because they understood that it makes no sense to compare us, since each of us has lived in certain circumstances, has a way of being and relates in a specific way.
You can be taller, I can be smaller, he’s shyer and she’s more outgoing. The question is ours?Default values?they don’t make us better or worse people, they make us ourselves. Every defect has its small part of virtue hidden, it’s just a matter of discovering it.
In fact, talking may not be your forte, but you express yourself wonderfully well in writing, or you may find it difficult to do manual things, but you’re doing great in sport Have you tried to figure out what your potential is?Does Anton seem to have discovered his potential by surprise at the end of the story?
Believe me, we never stopped discovering each other. We have many secrets kept within us that almost none of us know can exist, but one day they appear or you find them yourself, the fundamental condition is that we begin to love each other.
Remember: there is no one like you, is it impossible?, then, find out, take care of yourself and love yourself; you certainly won’t be the same.
If we change our attitudes, stop comparing ourselves, start loving each other and try to see the learning of each circumstance that happens to us, tiredness and unwillingness will leave us. Don’t be like Anton and don’t expect it to be like that. Will it come too late, because there is nothing more beautiful than starting to grow indoors and see how the vision of everything around us changes?