There is nothing more exhausting than listening to a person criticize and saying wrong everything that moves. Moreover, living surrounded by that negativism ends up making us feel bad, because the words and attitudes of a “critic” are like a virus that enters our minds and devastates it.
It is better to move away from the people who criticize us, because they poison and drown us in such a way that they cause us an imbalance, the price of a quiet life is incalculable, so we must not allow anyone to hurt us. physical and psychological space.
- One of the best signs of a person’s emotional and vital poverty is that he devotes his time and effort to criticizing others.
How much time do you spend each day listening to critics?A lot, little So it’s time to step back and get away from certain situations or people that jeopardize your well-being and emotional balance.
So take the time to improve yourself and your environment? This will do two things: maintain a healthy outlook on life and set an example for others.
That is, if instead of criticizing others, we would worry about correcting the mistakes that belong to us, we would achieve the highest level of emotional well-being, therefore we must overcome the personal order, so that we win in sincerity, respect. , humility, generosity and honor.
We are not perfect and should not try to be, but it is important to maintain an attitude of constant development that offers us the opportunity to live our lives without submitting to the emotional states of others.
There are people who think about us, about our lives, about our decisions or about the problems that are being given around them, they do so even though no one has asked for it, they usually give malicious opinions or without judgment, whose sole purpose is to hurt, belittle and appreciate the problem of others.
Generally, they are people with low self-esteem who do not accept themselves, so they can hardly accept others. These people use labels that reflect the reality of how they feel, projecting their emotional difficulties.
The most unhappy people in this world are the ones who care a lot about what others think.
Don’t pay attention to what others do or don’t do, pay attention to what you’re doing or don’t do.
? Buddha?
Start healing your emotional wound by clearly knowing that each of us is unique and exceptional, you don’t need anyone’s opinion to live. In fact, you are an adult who, with all his faculties, can make decisions for himself.
Make your emotions and feelings count, lose the fear of feeling and think for yourself. Listening to reviews and jokes constantly saturates anyone, but you don’t.
Remember that unfounded criticism leads to great emotional poverty in the inner world of those who do, if the person is not allowed to enrich himself, if he lives in isolation in his resentments and does not allow help, he becomes an emotionally selfish person. stay happy and protect your inner life.