Let’s be clear. Yes, I speak of you who sometimes emerge from within me wanting to confuse me, it is not true that seeking heat and fire from one side to the other makes us find them, nor is it true. that we will find affection in all these superficial embraces. If we keep this up, as Antonio Porchia said, we’ll freeze to death.
The truth is that we are trapped in a game of lies: we start hunting bodies that will never give us what we need. I think this is the time to stop. I’ll try to convince you that there’s nothing wrong with acknowledging that there comes a time when love is needed.
- My God.
- I’ll talk about our behavior first.
- Do you know what are some of the characteristics that differentiate a hummingbird from other birds? They are experts in their flight.
- Beating their wings more than 70 times per second and with terrifying precision.
- That is exactly what allows them to stand on one point.
- Permanent.
- Reach the nectar of a flower without touching or leaning on it.
- That is why they are called “hummingbirds”.
And you know what’s going on? The amount of energy they use to be able to fly so fast is very high, so if they eat badly they die, however, the difference between the behavior of a hummingbird and ours is that it can’t do anything else, but you and I can.
Is this expensive form of theft really worth it? We fly, we get the nectar we think we need from someone else without relying too much on them and we run away. We want some warmth, but we reject the affection behind the skin. the thing is, you end up harvesting only ephemeral and then cold, very cold satisfactions.
Cold on the outside and empty on the inside, that’s how it feels, the frustration of what is completely lost and disoriented, of what is momentarily not recognized, but in addition to the feeling of warmth and well-being that seems to arise when we are surrounded by so many fires , we are full of emotional suffering.
“It was a shame at that moment that they had not discovered black holes in space,
by then it would have been very easy to understand that I felt a black hole in my chest,
where infinite cold has infiltrated. ?
It is true that they tell us that we must learn to live alone, but of course we were born to share life, we like to have someone who participates in our conquests and pains or who listens to us when we return home. call, always impulsive, when we want to communicate something.
You will think that there was a time when it was worth walking from fire to fire: we had fun, we lived new experiences and fulfilled our most intimate desires, in this case everything was fine, because the needs we had were different.
However, these are not the current weaknesses. We want a real fire that takes us away from the emptiness and loneliness that exists when we wake up in different places every day, we are no longer made for that and you must recognize that, now we want to be burned, our hearts burned and loved.
It is good to have clear ideas to adapt to the consequences of our actions, that is, if we want to find warmth in someone else, we have to start leading the life we lead differently: we will allow ourselves to be happy. , we’ll be a little affectionate.