No man is perfect, just as no woman is perfect. We’re a long way from that. We are all full of flaws and we go through times when we are really hard to bear, even for the people who love us the most, however, there are personality traits that can be very negative for romantic relationships, which go far beyond a series of specific moments.
The problem arises for two reasons: we have never fully met a person and people change; a man may seem absolutely charming at first, but soon you will have to wonder where this Prince Charming went; or on the contrary: someone may seem totally bored and, over time, you discover a charm hidden in it.
“You fall in love when you realize that the other person is unique. -Jorge Luis Borges-
The truth is that some people have an inappropriate way of informing their affectivity and others, they may not be able to love, or not agree to be loved, or be trapped in their own hell of guilt, resentment, or fear. In such cases, unless you realize a miracle, the relationship will end in a failure. Therefore, here are three types of men from which it is better to stay away.
A type of man who goes from the greatest tenderness to the greatest aggressiveness, often without facts that justify such a change, which never really explains what happened. Simply, one day he dies of love for you and fills you with gifts and caresses, but the next day he rejects you in an acidic and sometimes cruel way.
They’re usually impulsive. Without understanding how, you begin to feel a deep ambiguity about them. You melt when you’re on your love side. He cannot imagine a man more loving and devoted than him. You feel like you love him and that he’s the great love that loves you. Then, when you wake up this kind of monster inside you, you just feel the opposite: rejection and even hatred for your instability or fear, because it becomes unpredictable.
This kind of man is emotionally exhausting. They have a deep conflict with themselves, which they have not overcome, they are very self-centered and therefore do not take into account the effects they have on you, the thing is that they are not prepared to have a sentimental relationship with you or someone else.
There are many ways to lie. The most obvious thing is to talk about facts or situations that never happened, but living by appearances, promising and unsatisfactory, contenting themselves with circumstances that people disagree with, are also ways to fall into lies.
The liar usually gives up, not because of the way he lies to you, but because of the way he does it with others. If you do it with others, why not do it with you too?Many times these lies are not easy to detect, because there are men who are true simulation professionals, so it is so important to pay attention to how you act with others.
Someone who lies constantly will prevent trust from growing in the relationship. You will soon find yourself doing a thorough investigation to detect it. Or check your stuff to see if you can fool her. With men who lie compulsively, it is impossible to build a meaningful relationship.
This is the kind of man you feel like you’re walking with all the time. They are usually very critical of what you do or say, and even with the way you dress. This trait is typical of those who are very successful. or money and just look for a company that behaves the way they want it to.
The thing is, you always feel valued and generally disqualified, you think it all 20 times before you say it. You measure very well how he behaves when he’s with you and stays in that tense attitude, which doesn’t leave you spontaneous. Suddenly you become a very quiet person when you are in your presence; or speaks, but is always attentive to the expression he has before his words.
In more extreme cases, these controlling and narcissistic men also end up being violent, believe that the world and all people, especially their partner, should behave as they think, their trick is bullying, either with subtle psychological games or with direct physical stress. Like this kind of man, you’ll never be happy.