Each carries on his back and in his heart a battle of his own, no one can compare to that of the neighbor, nor to that of his companion, nor to that of his best friend.
We carry all our hidden fears, traces of the past that have not yet healed, and labyrinths present in which we sometimes cannot find our way out and in which we see more enemies than allies.
- Is there an explanation for why certain situations occur?Some say our problems are the direct result of our own actions or bad decisions.
- This is not true.
- This rule is not always fair.
Sometimes things fail because adversity makes us lose the opportunity, as well as, because the person you trust has failed, because what was safe before is no longer because health is not always iron, but glass.
It is not easy, but the truth is that when we reach this world no one assures us that our days will be quiet, someone, somewhere, should warn us that we must learn as soon as possible to be the leaders of the wolf. Packages.
Strong creatures in the face of adversity. So tell us, Are you a good fighter too?
Think of this question for a moment: What was your first encounter with adversity?
It is often said that people lose their innocence the moment the first difficulty, loss or change that has forever changed the way we see the world arises.
You may think that no one is prepared to face adversity, but it is not, it is instinctive, the law of survival, and within it there are multiple strategies that will make you a great survivor.
We are aware that sometimes the great words are left in nothing, in the smoke that escapes through an open window through motivational phrases that many cannot apply to reality.
Despite this, and knowing that your difficulties are very special, it’s worth thinking about breaking some of your internal tactics to defeat external enemies.
Consider these aspects
Take away the power of those who have hurt you or done so in the past. Advance without unnecessary weight. Don’t increase your suffering with silent resentments.
Think about it for a moment. Instead of focusing your attention on the outside to contemplate your adversities, look inside yourself and find the value that the feeling of survival has offered you.
Sometimes we get tired of being told that greater learning is offered by adversity, vital moments that put us to the test so that, through suffering, we acquire knowledge.
We all live in it here and now? We face problems and hope that this vital knowledge will fall from heaven to improve our situation. How long do we have to wait?
When will I finally lead my wolf pack, if I’ve lived among them for so long?
There are those who get used to living with their enemies, accept, assume and let themselves be carried away for fear of change, for fear of what may happen, we cannot criticize them, because they are all free to live the life they want, even if it is at the expense of misfortune and frustration.
You may fear the outcome, but the battle will always be worth it because it will help you feel alive, capable and brave.
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