We all know one unhappy person, if not several. The number of unhappy people increases day by day, every day certain attitudes appear. Still, there are people who have not yet been victims of this modern epidemic and who live in joy and peace, radiant with love and happiness.
But this doesn’t seem to be fashionable. If you are one of those people who has not yet been involved in misfortune, the following tips will help you become the unfortunate unhappy person, if on the contrary you prefer to continue as you are, consider that what comes next is precisely what you should avoid.
“Nature made man happy and good, but society belittles him and makes him miserable. -Jean-Jacques Rousseau-
Society in general and your family in particular expect a lot from you, if you don’t meet these expectations, you will abandon those around you and make them suffer, especially if you don’t get what they don’t have or continue the family tradition.
To do what is expected of you, do you need to make sure you fit well into the mold, be as you should be, dress properly, follow all the rules?Even if you don’t quite understand why you have to do things like that.
If others can think for you, don’t waste time thinking for yourself, thinking is exhausting and a risk. Don’t waste time considering alternatives to be freer, happier and more comfortable with yourself, you run the risk of ruining your misfortune.
Around you, there’s an incredible battalion of people willing to tell you what to do and even what to think about. Don’t get tired of asking why things are happening and do as you’re told. You’ll see how unhappy you are, will be to avoid any kind of reflection and decision.
If you really want to be an unhappy person with your mask all the time, hide everything that isn’t in line with what it should be and act politically correctly at all times. If you show your true self, you run the risk of being discovered and people. they know they’ll push you beyond what’s expected of you. If you really want to be unhappy, being a fake hypocrite will help you maintain your status longer.
The best way to have an unhappy life is to do everything possible to save a lot of money and make it the only goal of your life. Instead of using your time to build a healthy life, maintain relationships with the people you care about and want. who you’re important, do what you really love to do, you need to work as hard as you can, plan your day-to-day just for your work and don’t spend more than it takes to meet your own needs.
Don’t spend on desires other than yours, even if you barely have time to enjoy them because you have a lot of work to do, and don’t forget to teach your kids that whoever wants something has to earn it with their If necessary, be the first to explore them to learn how hard life is and how much it costs to make your own money.
Unhappy people never take responsibility for their actions and never recognize responsibility for problems and difficulties, but criticize others and blame them for their problems and even their attitudes.
Learning from one’s mistakes is not something that accompanies unhappy people, so never think you can do anything to change things, because it will never be your fault, this way you will come to an increasingly unhappy life.
All the most unfortunate people think that they are not good enough as they are and constantly compare themselves to their environment, feeling inferior to them and looking for all the ways to be able to look like them, only then can they feel better about themselves.
To achieve this goal of absolute unhappiness, you must become an unsatisfied person with yourself, make sure you focus all your attention on the quality of others and how you are in relation to them, don’t make the mistake of forgiving your mistakes, let alone loving yourself as you are.