Who has never hidden their real self? Out of fear of what they are going to say, rejection or criticism? We want to be accepted by society and many times we do not show ourselves as we really are, but we try to look the best we can.
And it’s worth not being yourself? Of course not, because no matter what we do or prove, we’re never going to please everyone, so since we’ll always have people around us who will criticize us, why pretend to be someone else?a famous, handsome and talented actor will have an audience against him; It doesn’t make sense not to be yourself to try to please, because it will never work completely.
- The best thing about being yourself is that in addition to being authentic and achieving well-being.
- The people who accept us do it for who we really are.
- Anyone who tries to please.
- Sooner or later.
- Will have to stop pretending.
To be accepted without being oneself causes unease, because we suppress a part of ourselves and become slaves to others, on the other hand, to be accepted as oneself is a great liberation.
We should never try to please and meet the expectations of others, because when we show who we really are, we will build true and fulfilling relationships.
We need to think to see if we’re ourselves. We tend to want to show perfection to people, and that’s not necessary because, interestingly, people feel more comfortable with humans and imperfect people.
The best combination is with our true self, not what we show others. More satisfaction and good relationships will come when you show as you really are. Do you want to be sick or would you rather be happy?
We must always make our happiness a priority, because no one will live our lives for us. Don’t worry about other people’s opinions.
How many people were rejected for being considered false and “hidden”?How many times has this happened to us? Maybe if we had shown our true version, we would have liked it, and if they ever rejected us, they really do it because they don’t like the way we are and not because we pretend, right?At the end of the day, the mask must fall, one day or another.
The key to being ourselves is that we don’t care what other people expect of us. It is not important, because we will never be able to please everyone. We don’t need to meet an ideal standard; we are who we are and the best thing is that the sooner we show it, the more we attract like-minded people.
They expect us to be polite, organized and always kind, don’t we, in any case, enter this life to be happy and not to please others.
Nothing is more rewarding than having around us people with whom we can be ourselves, accepting our mistakes and making us feel good, it is much better than being who we are and not just that others love us, doing so would simply be living for others. .
Believe me: practicing the art of being authentic, as well as bringing well-being and liberation, will attract stable, lasting and enriching relationships.
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