Forgiveness is an action for which not everyone is prepared, but one thing is certain, who knows how to forgive others knows perfectly the sense of freedom that invades him when he does, it is not only an act for the person that offends us. , but above all an act for ourselves.
We must forgive in order to move forward, not drag the wound like a ballast, and even on certain occasions we must restore a dialogue that answers the questions that have remained. Questions that can only be clarified, by the person we’re irritated with for any reason.
- On the other hand.
- The damage was often not caused by someone else.
- But by ourselves.
- Whether deliberately or not.
- We are ultimately responsible for our injuries and have no reason to blame anyone for what happened.
When we ask for forgiveness, it is because we fail with someone else or make such a serious mistake that others have been affected by our actions, but why ask forgiveness without first forgiving you?
On several occasions we have left many of our responsibilities in the hands of others, for which only we must be responsible, in this case, for example, it is time to forgive, a very clear example would be that of love. Isn’t it true that if we don’t love each other, we can’t love anyone else?Because the same goes for forgiveness.
You may be wondering why no one has taught you this before, why no one has said that we should forgive ourselves for being forgiven later by others or forgiving others. The reality is that we have always learned to be irresponsible, in a way, in our actions.
Therefore, we allow ourselves to love others without loving ourselves first, do we want them to forgive us without forgiving us first, we demand respect without respecting ourselves?It’s a long list, no doubt, because we’re constantly falling. in the same mistake over and over again.
Perhaps this error in which we fall again and again, instead of forgiving ourselves in the first place, is just a sign of one of men’s greatest fears: being aware of our weaknesses and that we are not perfect. us and accept our mistakes. Maybe that’s why we’d rather look elsewhere.
Today we want to give you some advice to forgive yourself without fear, so that the next time you need to ask for forgiveness, think of yourself first, because it is not selfish to consider yourself as the first choice. important in your life, so only you must be the first to ask forgiveness, and for yourself.
“Is forgiveness a gift you make to yourself?-Suzanne Somers-
Now that you know what to do to forgive yourself before you forgive others, you can forgive. Now keep in mind that you should always move on. Forgiveness is something that is said and offered, in fact, quite quickly. Something that proves our responsibility, for our actions and can be offered immediately after the mistake is made.
It is important to be sympathetic to oneself, we all fail at some point in our lives and sometimes we need someone else’s forgiveness, but do not make it a constant. Forgiveness must be, and must be, sincere and not constant.
Also think that asking for forgiveness will allow you to know yourself even more, you will know where you have not been able to find a solution, you will develop greater self-confidence and you will value yourself more.
Do you always forgive yourself before you forgive yourself?We hope that from now on you will implement the act of forgiveness, an action that will enrich you and then allow you to ask for a much more sincere and true forgiveness from others.