When we say that someone has entered our lives it is because they have ceased to be someone else and has begun to have an important space by our side, we approach them and feel comfortable.
Right now you’re starting to feel feelings of affection and being reciprocal: the best thing you can do then is try to keep them and show them.
When you love someone, feeling lonely isn’t enough, you have to prove it.
Sometimes what happens is that we love that person very much, but we don’t know how to prove it.
It can be a friend, a family member or even your partner. Sometimes you even assume that she knows you love her and that you won’t lose her.
“When you like it you have to be brave enough to say it, and when you say something you have to have the courage to say it. “-GRAMO. B. Clemenceau-
Ovedia Rosales, a therapist, argues that showing how much you love a person makes them feel more willing to keep loving you.
Therefore, it would be very positive to tell our parents and children more often than we love them, to take better care of our friends and fight for the feeling of a partner. Here are some tips for it.
There are ways to show how we feel about others, and they are likely to go unnoticed because they are very simple attitudes. They won’t require much of you, but the other person will become very special.
? The smallest details are the most important: the sum of small gestures strengthens our relationships more than we think.
It’s a mistake to think that giving someone a big surprise at a special time will make them stay by your side forever, a great action or a wonderful gift don’t guarantee the future.
The best guarantee is day to day: take care of this person whenever you remember them and show them that it is important to you. She’ll thank you.
? Love yourself first: it’s good to know that if there’s an intention to love someone, you must first love yourself.
A lot of people think that giving themselves completely to someone is a way to show love, but it doesn’t work that way if you forget about yourself. Respecting personal space is the only way to love and love.
? Knowing him well is the first step: remember that each person has weaknesses and if you want them to feel special, the first thing you have to do is get to know them.
When you know your tastes, fears, worries and what makes you happy, all you have to do is show them your love, let them know that you can mitigate your bad times and take advantage of what makes you happy.
Keep in mind that a candy bar, a walk, a letter, or a simple phone call can make the other person’s day.
? Share your time with yours: one of the most precious things we have in life is the ability to make our time what we want, so sharing it with others is a manifestation of affection.
It’s very important that the other person knows that you want to spend time with them, even if it’s very difficult to do so for reasons like distance, but if you can do it, do it.
There are many ways to reduce distances and share our time, especially if that means sharing our lives, you can surely think of a thousand ways to do it.
? Show affection – is there a refrain that says friction makes love? And that is absolutely true.
This seems to be a very obvious pattern, but we often forget that people like us occasionally need our displays of affection, it’s not just about physical contact, it’s about making someone feel embraced by a smile, for example.
Trust the other, accept their way of being and respect it, listen to it as if what is living is yours, forgive and show them how you feel.
Because to love someone and to know how to show is to love twice, because if you want them in your life you have to make them stay with you.
“If love is not seen and heard, does it not exist and does not serve the little prince?