Today I am willing to make decisions leaving fear, doubts and everything that holds me back, I do not want to continue imposing limitations when in reality they do not exist, they are only in my mind. I want to move on and stop backing down. Today I feel determined to achieve everything I want. I’m willing to let life set the boundaries, not me.
Every decision is a prerequisite for change, because it means taking a new direction, changing what we’ve done so far, maybe it has to do with our relationships, leaving someone behind, saying goodbye to our partner, maybe you’re focusing more on our work, leaving it because we’re not satisfied, to look for better alternatives.
- We know that making decisions will change our lives.
- So we think so much and ask ourselves so many questions that in the end make us doubt.
This is the first question we’d have to ask ourselves when we’re ready to make a decision. What do you know about this?Know its pros and cons?Is it realistic?Sometimes we idealize what we want to achieve and we can’t see if your application is viable or not.
So let’s imagine that we are in a professional situation that we do not like, the first thing to do would be to determine why we are so upset, maybe the salary is precarious, we do not like what we do, we have no motivation?With this, one can already think about the importance of each of these reflections, and whether they have a solution with a change of attitude.
If there is no option to go back or a possible solution, it is time to know both right and bad to get out of work or stay in the same situation, we have to accept that things can end very well or very badly, because in decision making nothing is reliable or safe.
The next recommended step, as we can make safe decisions, is to think of alternatives if Plan A doesn’t go as planned. If we do not consider possible gaps, we may find ourselves in a dead end from which we do not know how that is when the whole world will fall upon us, at the risk of being crushed.
According to the example above, one of the alternatives could be the following, we stay in our current position until we achieve something safe, which is to continue our work until we pass the process of selecting another job in which the conditions are better. This way, we’re not afraid to end up on the street.
It is not safe for us to rely on our Plan A, as it can fail and generate significant disappointments and consequences. Only with Plan A in terms of quitting work could you run out of income and benefits due to voluntary abandonment, you may not find a new job opportunity, etc.
After all of the above, it’s time to put into action everything we think and plan. If you don’t, you’ll always have the question of “what would have happened if. “So if you already have several alternative plans if nothing goes as planned, it’s time to get serious.
At first, you’ll be scared, will doubts arise about your ability to face this challenge, your lack of fulfillment, your madness in wanting to go higher?These are natural thoughts, but they shouldn’t stop you when you’ve done all the work beforehand. Be brave and go. Go ahead. Your life is about to change because it’s you who decides what’s best.
Now that you’ve done so, you’ll check if everything’s going well or if you need to take some of the alternatives you’ve thought about, this decision may not fill you up completely and you’ll find the need to make a new one. . Never mind. The positive thing is to try, fail, test and try again until you finally get to where you want to be.
It is important not to make hasty decisions, you have to give it time, think about everything and evaluate all the options, only then you will get the desired results, in this way, give yourself a space to decide before performing a very important step. Having clear ideas and a clear mind will eliminate any doubts that may intimidate you at any time.
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