At some point in our lives, we have come to no longer tolerate one thing or one person, for example, we no longer tolerate the behavior of one of our friends or family and are full of resentment.
However, what happens when we did not tolerate ourselves ?, when we thought about how we could do this, how we decided to accept this job, how we could eat so much.
- Without realizing it.
- We became our worst enemy.
- Something that results from the anger or irritation we feel towards another person ends in ourselves.
- A resentment that prevents us from holding on.
“If resignation causes resentment, the sacrifice is no longer worth it. -Giovanni Guareschi-
We are not happy when we have resentment, we suppress a rage that struggles to manifest, express itself and thus free ourselves forever.
However, we do not realize that we are the most affected in this case, we are the ones who will live bitter, unhappy and continually irritated against everything and everyone.
You may not be visually conscious, but you’ve certainly seen people constantly keeping an irritated face. And you wonder, “But why are you so angry?”Isn’t it better to be happy?
That is exactly what happens to us when we actually meet someone. We unwittingly become hostile and it shows on our faces.
Moreover, hostility will bring nothing but negative things into our lives. Wondering why nothing seems to work lately? Discuss how you’re doing it. That’s the answer.
We do not realize that hostility always comes against ourselves, this means that in addition to affecting us, it also affects our whole environment, the people we love most and all our relationships will be affected by this new way that we have to face everyone. Day.
Being hostile won’t do us any good. In fact, being in this hostile situation for a long time can make us seriously ill.
“No human being is born with hostile or violent impulses. No one becomes hostile or violent without taking the time to learn to be hostile. Ashley Montago-
What can we do to stop being hostile? To begin with, we must surround ourselves with positive people who convey sympathy and joy.
Sometimes we are plunged into hostility because we surround ourselves with hostile, negative and malevolent people who mentally undermine us without realizing it.
When we encounter so much hostility and resentment, what we must learn now is forgiveness, but not only to forgive others, but also ourselves.
As mentioned above, sometimes you feel resentful and don’t lean on it because your own behavior bothers you.
Forgiving others and yourself takes time. That is why it is necessary to eliminate in advance certain things that can dull this forgiveness that we seek:
All these things, and many others, are the ones that make us live in bitterness and prevent us from forgiving others and ourselves.
We all make mistakes and we must feel free from everything others may cause us. Are they hurting you? Think you allow that to happen, because it’s not a physical evil. Don’t you have the power to decide who can and who won’t hurt you?
“There is no vengeance as complete as forgiveness. ” Josh Billings-
Keep in mind that the less you let others hurt you, the more you ignore gossip and jokes, the more you live in the present without thinking about the future, the better you’ll feel.
You’ll be free and nothing can hurt you. What people say will no longer matter and you can live your life however you want, no matter what they say. Live your life, forgive yourself and forgive yourself. Be free and be happy!