It is common for people to live connected to each other and thus put an end to each partner’s emotional growth concerns and opportunities. You have to give him wings so that his partner can fly, not lock him in a cage to enjoy exclusively what he is and what he transmits.
So what is clear is that everyone’s happiness must depend on themselves, what is happening is that the relationship is one of the main potentializers. So for this to have its full effect, we need to pay attention to many beliefs that bind us together in codependent relationships.
- For the couple to function as essential vitamins.
- They must take a fundamental step: to find a common goal.
- Preserving personal space.
- For this it is essential that time passes and that there is positive mutual knowledge.
Finding a common goal is the first step in retaining each couple’s personal space, which improves the ability to get to know each other and explore new horizons, each with its own grain of sand.
Finding these moments to share and outline them will help the members of the relationship to understand that there is time to grow in company and together, but be careful: we must make sure that this common goal does not absorb them, either as a couple or as concerned people.
So couples who behave like an emotional vitamin share concerns because they need to be aware of many details, subtleties that are sometimes forgotten through conflict?
The more emotional information a couple share about their concerns, the healthier their relationship will be, compared to their emotional ambitions and contacts, a fundamental premise for becoming a dream pilot.
In other words, we should not restrict the freedom to enjoy and know each other, because as an emotionally healthy couple, the realization of each other’s dreams and aspirations must be promoted. Falling into this mistake is very common and is reflected in phrases like, “Didn’t I say I wasn’t doing this?”, when you haven’t actually contributed much?or did he wince? If you do, will you bear the consequences?
If we don’t say this, but express our opinion explicitly, we probably support some traditional beliefs around a romantic relationship, thoughts that directly attack the proactive attitudes that make our dreams come true.
Is it good to avoid the existence of hidden and under-explored agendas?In our partner and provide emotional ground to share desires and concerns that will help us recreate an individual development space, to achieve this we must:
To love is to love, in spite? And with our sides and our edges, we all have an ugly side, another beautiful side, another injured side, another sick side, another acid side, another bitter side, another sweet side, another salty side, another happy side, another scary side, another sad side, another explorer side, another lazy side and another disconcerting side.
Each of our facets makes us worthy of love and love, so to complement ourselves as an emotional vitamin we must respect the expression of each feeling and every way of being, only in this way can we embrace ourselves from every corner of the city. our hearts.
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