Often stripping the body is not so difficult, but it is difficult to undress the soul and create a true intimacy, showing us what we really are like, our fears, insecurities and weaknesses will come into play and we will feel vulnerable, how easy it is to undress and how difficult it is to get rid of this armor that protects us so much!But only then can we connect with each other in the most authentic and sincere way possible.
True intimacy is created when two souls can touch each other, when they pass through the body and connect to the deepest part of the other person. From this moment on, caresses will stop touching each other’s bodies to focus on aspects of their personality. Because it’s only when they’re able to embrace our defenses that they’ll release their stiffness to make room for whatever we keep inside.
- What is the key that opens the armor of our hearts ?.
- What is the key so that little by little we can show ourselves what we really are ?.
- Where do our defenses end and where does true intimacy begin?This is called trust.
Building trust in our relationships is the bridge to this deep and sincere connection.
It can be difficult to build trust because at first we will have to deal with our defense mechanisms, but when we do, we will know that if we fall, the other will support us and will not leave when we show ourselves who we are. . Because true trust comes from acceptance.
It won’t be easy, but when we build trust, the real story starts between two people. Is trust the security mechanism that motivates us to show ourselves how we are, unconditionally, without an audience?Only two souls in their purest form.
It is normal for doubt to arise and for us to reject intimacy at first. When we show ourselves as we are, we feel vulnerable, with the risk that the other will not do the same. What if we don’t love each other anymore when we really know each other?What if we tell everything about ourselves and it’s not reciprocal?What can happen when we open our hearts to others?
There’s always a chance we won’t find what we expect from each other, but if we don’t try, won’t we be sure of each other’s acceptance?To regain the trust and create the intimacy you so desire, you have to take off your mask and try your luck, if we don’t, we will never have the opportunity to create solid and true relationships and enjoy intimacy between us.
We are surrounded by superficial relationships sustained by disguised critics; Sex that is only bodies fears that we will suffer alone; People who just want our business, but don’t compromise?No more relationship for fear, if that’s not what we want. Let us be free, courageous and strong to seek what we deserve.
Don’t be afraid: intimacy is full of trust and connection, fears paralyze us. They protect us, but they also prevent us from growing up and trying to connect again. Having a bad experience doesn’t mean it happens again. It’s brave to keep trying, not feel rejected and always want more and better.
To be courageous is to show our essence and authenticity so that others can see us as we are, so they will truly know us and only then can we be sure that those who stay with us truly love us.
Loving yourself is the key that will give us the confidence not to give up who we are, in this way we will accept our fears, begin to appreciate ourselves and prevent our insecurities from preventing us from showing the world who we really are.
Leave the bodies together and be careful if the souls are connected, forget the fears and free yourself to discover yourself and discover each other: no makeup, no armor, no insecurity, that you know what you really are.