Certainly, we have all gone through difficult situations in which we find ourselves not knowing how to act, the truth is that no matter how we choose, we will face difficulties.
Lying sometimes seems like the shortest and simplest way, yet does lying put us in a dead end?And we end up getting lost: one lie attracts another, and so on.
- Lying on a subject in our lives can sometimes seem like the most comfortable way.
- So we feel more relaxed and decide not to tell the truth.
- Either because we’re embarrassed or because we’re aware that we’ve made a mistake.
- Is to be honest with others in all situations.
- Otherwise we will also be wrong.
We must be aware that we are not perfect and therefore we have the right to be wrong, it is proven that the lie falls by its own weight, while the truth is independent, in this sense we must be consistent with our own actions, accept what we have done wrong and, therefore, put ourselves in the shoes of those we hurt.
“The truth works about lying like oil in the water. “- Miguel de Cervantes Saavedra-
Telling the truth can be very painful, but over time, the people around us and ourselves will appreciate our efforts and also help us respect and forgive ourselves.
When we are sincere everything around us is sustained: we are aware of the positive and the negative that exists in us, people who turn away from us do so because, one way or another, they do not enter our world, which means that they were not made to share our lives and that they are somehow not compatible with us.
It can be hard to accept that some people aren’t attracted to what we can offer them, but it makes us understand that they don’t value us for who we really are. And shouldn’t we be proud of who we are?
“He who lies does not know the difficult task he has undertaken, for he will be forced to invent twenty times more to sustain the certainty of the former. “-Alexander Pope-
Mark Twain said that “if you tell the truth, you won’t have to remember anything. “The truth is that being honest is the best option to be relaxed and ‘fine’. With life. Otherwise, our daily lives will become a constant tension to maintain, one way or another, what we are not.
Nothing compares to the satisfaction of telling the truth: it can be difficult at first, we will receive many criticisms for what we have done, but the peace that sows the truth is not compared to the illusion that lies represent. others helps us to mature and value ourselves as people, because it shows our courage.
So while at first it may seem difficult to accept the truth, it’s the best decision. Over time, we’ll realize that this is the simplest way. The lie feeds on itself to entangle everything around it, and truth frees us.
We can regain people’s trust if we surround ourselves with the truth, because their foundations are much stronger than those of lies. While we do our best to be honest and honest with others, we are also honest with ourselves. Therefore, others will thank us.
“What worries me is not your lies, but the fact that from now on I can no longer believe you” – Friedrich W. Nieztsche-
Be honest with yourself, be honest with others, always choose what you would like others to do for you, because this way it will be much easier to get them to respond to you in the same way. Think about it: is it easier to lie or accept the truth and endure the consequences?