Life is very short, but we still spend a lot of time on absurd behaviors that don’t make sense. They are attitudes that we repeat insistently and that end up becoming a habit. These attitudes bring nothing new and do not enrich our daily lives; they don’t help solve problems and don’t bring any benefit. After many years, or perhaps never, we will realize the time we have wasted.
In this article we will show some of these attitudes and highlight how useless they are.
- You don’t have to fight for others to accept you.
- Forcing a situation with a trick to win people’s sympathy is like asserting each other’s superiority and admitting you’re worthless.
- At best.
- You can be treated the same way you are treated.
- That is.
- With veiled contempt.
- People must accept us spontaneously.
- By affinities.
- Sympathy and way of being.
We make mistakes every day. If the fear of making mistakes paralyzes you, look for another planet to live on, think about everything we do or don’t do is a mistake, everything can be a mistake: if you weren’t wearing lace-up shoes, you could spend less time dressing, if you only wear loafers, they deform easily. Absolutely everything has a margin of error. Therefore, the fear of mistakes is totally useless, because there will always be gaps, large or small, in your life.
You may have gone through a very difficult situation and it has left a deep mark on your heart, I was probably crying a lot and did not know how to continue living with this pain, the truth is that you managed to survive, otherwise you would not read this article. You may think you haven’t overcome this suffering yet, but self-pity won’t get you anywhere. Self-pity is the best way to prolong this situation indefinitely. Do not waste your time and use your suffering to reflect on what happened and become aware of the lessons that each difficult situation brings us.
Perhaps you are the person who believes that there are no common ground; Either everything’s fine or everything’s wrong. You try to live with your point of view and end up suffering even more, because these principles only work on paper. Not everything is “white or black”, there are many shades of gray. cannot be radicalized; every situation deserves to be analyzed in its own context. As we said before, there will always be failures, who can say what’s right and what’s wrong?
If parents, society, destiny, the economic system or culture are responsible for what’s wrong with you, there’s nothing to do where’s your responsibility?Do you position as a passive person and your only option is to accept suffering?This attitude does nothing good, it only prolongs undesirable situations. Be aware of your power and take responsibility for your life.