In life, we tend to want more, and to some extent it’s an incentive to get what we want. Expectations are subjective and partial, and we cannot confuse the fact that we are ambitious in relation to our goals with the expectation of more than something that is alien to us, we gradually realize that some things are not as we expected and as we have idealized in our friendships, our relationships and our projects.
A recent study links elusive personality to low ability to enjoy life. One of the characteristics of these people is the ability to easily distort neutral stimuli and identify them in a negative way, as well as need the constant approval of others.
- Expectations are a double-edged sword that we must be able to manage in the way that suits us best.
- Sometimes they are the necessary incentive to help us move forward and sometimes they are the fastest path to personal disappointment.
- Of something is like having hope.
- Anticipating the satisfactory outcome of a given situation.
- Danger occurs when we sin on the side of optimism.
- Although it would be more appropriate to call it illusion.
Humility can be defined as knowing our own weaknesses and limitations and acting accordingly. We can be proud of ourselves and recognize our successes or improvements without making us feel superior to other human beings. Should we all strive every day? Cultivate our humility.
Cultivating humility will save us from overwhelming pride. An arrogant or very proud person hides his knowledge to face certain situations, arrogance implies excessive satisfaction by self-contemplation, being arrogant feels better and more important than others, so his goals must always be more numerous and better than others, sometimes achieving goals that do not overestimate his abilities.
Humble people are authentic, simple and with high self-esteem, they are people so confident that they don’t have to yell at everyone how much they are, all the time, they are people who get involved, transmit hope and passion. and love their daily lives.
Practicing gratitude is one of the most important attitudes we can acquire and a great source of well-being, as well as making ourselves feel good and doing good to others, allows us to approach change and development with awareness and serenity, away from emergencies.
There are people who seem able to thank you for everything life puts you on the road without too much effort, and yet there are others who do a lot to do, because they have never learned to do it. Attitudes of constant complaint and dissatisfaction leads us to feel dissatisfied or satisfied with what we have.
No matter what we achieve or achieve, if we stick to what we don’t have instead of thanking what we have, we are doomed to misfortune, gratitude is an attitude born of humility, so to be grateful you have to be humble first, a quality that people who are constantly dissatisfied do not usually have.
Express gratitude with a simple smile or?Thank you??it lets the other person know that your presence, your words, your actions are important and that it somehow helps us in what you are doing. It’s about showing respect and valuing what others do for us, regardless of their motivation to do so.