Today many couples are formed over the Internet. In many cases, lasting and healthy relationships arise, but there is also a pletlet house of cases where people fall into the Internet trap. The danger of virtual relations is a topical issue. We know that many people are on the Internet, behind a screen, tend to show and expose only the good side and hide their flaws as much as possible.
When we come face to face with someone, we see both their virtues and their flaws. So, if we love someone and there is an affinity, it will create an illusion in us that will have an intensity proportional to the flaws we see in people.
- The fewer flaws we see.
- The more enthusiasm and passion there will be.
- When we notice more defects in the other person.
- The intensity of feelings decreases.
- Even if we continue to love them.
When we interact with someone through a screen, we’re not coming into contact with something very important, which is nonverbal language. The way we look, talk, laugh and a general presence is very important, because if it is clear that no one falls in love with the physique alone, there must be a chemistry, there must be something that moves us about it. Within.
It is good to know someone intimately on the Internet, but we must be aware that this is only one part that needs to be supplemented with another more important part, which is to meet a real person, it is only when the two facets (virtual and real) come together so that we can know if we really love someone.
We’ve all met or seen people on a TV show who claim to be in love with someone they don’t know personally, it’s not real, these feelings are a product of our imagination, this fantasy feeds on nice texts or something we receive through How there’s no image we can see, the mind invents one, idealizing the other and creating the model we want.
Virtual love has caused problems for many people who wonder how they may have suffered from something that is not real, there are also countless cases of errors, the photos someone sent did not resemble the actual image and the sensitivity and understanding they presented. in writing did not correspond to reality.
Therefore, it is advisable not to lengthen virtual relationships indefinitely, because the sooner we face reality and meet face to face with the person, the sooner we will have our feet on the ground.
Many people claim to have had stronger feelings for someone on the Internet than in real life, this is because in face-to-face relationships the eyes see reality and do not give rise to an imagination as strong, as in purely virtual cases.
On the other hand, when the eyes do not see reality, the mind begins to imagine and create an idealized figure of what we would like to find, of the person we think is ideal, so little by little we enter into an illusion. that we create, until it reaches such a great intensity that it can damage us more than we think.
I have seen cases of people who have suffered from virtual relationships, once they have been able to understand what the mind is able to do when it has no real information, they are able to put their feet on the ground and stop these false feelings.
Talking to someone practically without knowing them is like entering a fantasy world, the people most vulnerable to the dangers of virtual relationships are the ones who tend to dream and those who are not satisfied with real life.
The dangers of virtual relationships increase when real life is not satisfactory, because you search the Internet for what you don’t really have, you have to be careful because at the same time that on the Internet you can find honest people who deserve to be known. there’s also the other side, sick and false.