We all need someone to take care of us, and that doesn’t mean we depend on each other to feel good, it’s just good to realize and recognize that when we can’t handle everything, when we get to the bottom, or when everything’s okay. All right, we need someone to remind us who we are or who we can become.
It is these people who remind us that we are more than our circumstances, that sometimes mistakes occur, act like guardian angels and give us wings to fly over the rubble of a part of our collapsed world, they can also be the voice of our consciousness if we start flying very high and approach the sun of our own success. They are our pillar, our balance, the ying of our yang.
- A friend is that person who tries to get up when you fall.
- And if you cannot get up.
- Come to your side to listen to you and make you understand that whatever happens.
- You are not alone.
It’s usually easy to find someone for the right times, go out for a drink, go shopping, go to the movies or have a coffee is never a sacrifice, but true friends are the ones who are present at times when you’re not the nicest. Company.
Those moments when you burst into tears and cursed the world. The afternoon when nothing you do, say or listen will make you feel better. It is at this moment that you appreciate the one around you, the help that carefully collects your pieces. hold them without you nodding.
It’s those eternal conversations full of complaints that don’t go anywhere, but you have to get out of yourself, it’s the laughter of absurdity and fear that you feel that nothing can get worse and you may not realize it, but it’s the will to stop the world that keeps spinning without you agreeing, that you manage to stop in those hours with criticism , tears and laughter in good company.
This good business can be summarized simply in the words TRUE AMITIE. This one that everything can and does change. So hard to get and if necessary. Real friends are few and many, but they always accompany you in difficult times.
Perhaps the less recognized value of friendship is the one that appears when things go well, when the envy of those who don’t really like it appears and the pride of success calls it, those moments when you feel invincible and successful, even if it’s momentary, it goes to your head and you end up losing yourself.
It is in those moments that someone, this true friendship, has the task of revealing the raw reality, that is when you cut your wings by arrogance and step on the ground, because the real friends are the ones who tell the truth face to face. , even if it hurts, because they know that at the time you may not be grateful for that attitude, but that’s what you need.
They know that as long as there is an initial rejection caused by your words, you will not forget the real concern behind them: your well-being, because they do it not to hurt you, but on the contrary, to avoid the pain of falling when you run, or to add energy, so that you finally dare to take the leap.
So we all always need someone to take care of us, because we are our greatest enemy when things are going very well or when things go very wrong, because we need someone to stop the imbalance before we finally reach self-destruction, because no one is perfect and in solitude, the projection of our faults is necessary. And because life shared with someone special is a life that deserves to be lived. From start to finish.