It’s simple. We are a balloon full of emotions in a world full of pins, I talk about you, that you move around and live with the sensations of the skin, of course that is what characterizes you. You stand out for your special sensitivity.
But there’s a price to pay for being exceptionally emotional, your worries, emotions and feelings don’t give you a break, they’re with you, whether they like it or not.
- And then there are the pins.
- Which sting your ball and spread your emotions.
- Do not understand that your skin is fragile and that if they approach you will cause you an explosion.
- An irreparable rupture.
You try to hold your emotions in the air, but you don’t always make it, just sometimes. You end up with some of them in your hand and another part on the ground.
And be careful that no one steppes on it, of course, otherwise you will lose a part of yourself and you will have to build another puzzle.
Now you have to fill another balloon, this time a little more resilient, you know that sooner or later another pin will come that will explode again, however, surely this new pin will have to get a little closer to you.
“I’m going to put my ball in another ball, will I have more protection, you think?And so he ended up creating layers and layers to protect himself from the outside. Like an onion.
“The pin that wants to touch my emotions will have a lot of work to do. I won’t let them hurt me again? But it wouldn’t be strange or so hard for another pin to blow up all its barriers.
And you start over. Collect your emotions, very carefully, to go buy more quality balloons to protect your emotions.
This time you’ll paint a balloon of each color and write a few words for everyone to read:
Denying our feelings is one of the most common balloons, that is, we are not aware of what is happening to us and, of course, we are not facing the situation.
If we cannot describe in detail moments in our lives it is because we stop thinking about everyday life, this, of course, has disastrous consequences, if we do not learn from what we are going through, we will make more and more mistakes. and we will not recognize each other in our actions.
There is another balloon that specializes in rejecting contact, it is one of the darkest because it takes us away from the real world, leading us to reject the possibility of meeting with those pieces of life offered to us by others.
Frida Kahlo said that building walls around feelings can be devoured from the inside, we want to be loved, but without showing fragility, without opening our hearts, there are hugs that can bring together our broken pieces again, but we have to let others hug us. .
“I have superpowers and nothing overflows. I built the strongest walls I’ve ever seen.
However, the reality is that movement with armor is complicated and that we lack freedom, in the end you inflate so many balloons that you don’t know how to keep them in the air and relax.
Maintaining this attitude is likely to give us an illusion of control over our emotions, but it’s just an illusion. Something painful has happened, but fear of suffering makes us hide our true reality.
Ok, you are as you are and you defend your right, but are you speaking for yourself or for your armor? You will likely wear a mask so that no one knows what is inside you.
This balloon can protect you from many pins. However, while this can help you fly over some complex situations, at other times it will become an even greater ballast, a situation that far from minimizing suffering will generate much more.
We protected ourselves from those of us who we believe we are putting on safety balloons, but one day we felt uncomfortable behind them and couldn’t go out or breathe.
We can run away, we can face each other, we can kill ourselves, but that won’t help us be ourselves. Our balloons have a taste of the past, a past that we must begin to overcome.