To think that your beliefs and values define you is a good thing if your actions go the same way, however, sometimes their words and actions take different directions and all this ends up being just good intentions. We’re what we do, not what we say. Think.
There’s no point in bragging about being a good person if I don’t help others afterwards, no matter how smart you pretend to be someone, if you don’t do anything creative afterwards. very easy, the hardest thing is to make it happen. The fundamental question is: why are we doing this?
“What you do is much more valuable than what you say you’re going to do. “
As much as we express good intentions, what will speak louder will be what we do. Our actions will always triumph over words. However, believing otherwise says a lot about how we relate to others, how we reveal and manipulate reality.
An example of this can be seen in conjugal relationships fueled by promises that are often just words. Swear that you will never abandon the person you love so much, pretend that he is the only one or that you will always be by his side in the most difficult moments?All of this, though very nice, may not happen at some point. There are variables we can’t control.
There is always the possibility of finding someone you prefer and eventually abandoning that partner, you can end up cheating on someone else or maybe in the most difficult times you won’t be able to handle the pressure and choose to escape. This way, this partner will be disappointed and won’t even recognize you because he believed everything you said he would do.
“No matter what you say or how you justify yourself, you’re what you do. Your behavior speaks for you, you relate it, and you highlight it?-Walter laughs-
One way or another, the person has given great power to words, the power to keep someone by your side or manipulate reality and affirm what you are not, however, when it comes to truth, words can be useless and what counts are actions performed and really defines who they are.
The greatest danger of affirming such categorical truths about ourselves is that, even if they disappear at some point, we may end up believing them; on the other hand, instead of confirming them with actions, we stay there, calm, as if from a comfort zone. This may be mainly due to the fact that good intentions are sometimes loaded with deep fears.
We cannot forget that whoever claims his superiority from the outside tries to disguise insecurities and fears that he does not even want to see, is natural. Facing our fears face to face is terrifying, the easiest way is to turn your back and pretend not to be there, but over time this becomes an increasingly heavy burden.
This does not allow us to live peacefully, positively and coherently, because there will be no coherence between what we think, feel and do, in this way it will be impossible to find and feel the long-awaited vital balance.
“Happiness happens when what you think, say and do is in harmony. “- Gandhi
Therefore, we are no better because we believe that our way of thinking is ideal, nor because we pretend to be better and nothing else, our actions can contradict words and become liars, let us not forget that nothing defines us better than our behavior.
It could be? X? The question is whether we do more and say less, or at least do what we say?