Waiting for someone to come and save us is a mistake because no one will do better than us, even if sometimes we need a little help. The best savior bears our name because we can also be our heroes.
You don’t need to wear a special outfit or fight enemies with superpowers, you only have to be careful and take care when necessary, otherwise one day an discomfort can appear in our lives to stay.
- Being our heroes will help us improve self-esteem.
- Make our dreams easier and show the rest of the world that we have the ability to do what we want.
- Our happiness depends on us and certainly our heroism.
A hero is defined by his courage, his ability to act and, in a way, to generate happiness and well-being. How does a hero make him? Making decisions, choosing what to do and where to go, so if we want to become our heroes, we need to know that our decisions are very important.
The problem is, we’re constantly deciding, but we don’t realize it. The clothes we put into what we’re going to eat or how we’re going to spend the day. Our routine is full of options. However, the best decision is related to our attitude, how do we choose to face the day, or how do we manage the things that are happening?
Many times we think that we have less power than we actually have over us, so it is essential to decide how we will act and what our attitude will be in the most different situations, a hero is aware of it and committed. Are we going to get down to business?
We need to stop giving importance to those inner voices that do not allow us to progress and catch us in the comfort zone. We’ll decide to save ourselves from this “bad commodity. “
A hero, in addition to his bravery, defines himself by fighting enemies to save the world, so if we want to be our heroes, we will also have to learn to fight our enemies.
But who are our enemies? Anything that keeps us in discomfort and lowers us, such as fears, mistrust, conflict, toxicity . . . But above all we treat ourselves whenever we treat each other badly, when we don’t think about ourselves and forget all the potential we have.
So do we have to fight ourselves? No, unlike the heroes of movies, series and books, we have to turn everything that makes us sick into something that gives us well-being or at least something we can always learn from, our struggle is not a battle, but understanding and awareness. change and start taking care of us, that’s the secret.
We have already seen that being aware of our decisions and also stimulating a global attitude to become aware of what is happening and transform it in our favor helps us in the incredible task of becoming our own heroes, but what else can we do?
It is important to start analyzing what are or are the people who control our lives, is it our boss, our family, our work or our social precepts ?, what time did we give them ?, do they do what they want with us?
We do not mean that all the people around us have become our enemy, but that many times, even with the best intentions, they can be an obstacle to our growth, so it is important to pay attention to our environment so that we do not influence ourselves negatively.
Therefore, the secret to being our own heroes is not on the outside, but within each of us, is the ability to make ourselves visible and give us the importance we deserve to offer ourselves the best. there is only one person who will accompany us forever, whether for better or worse, and that person is ourselves. Why waste time being our worst critics and enemies?
Take care, love yourself and understand yourself. True heroes are not those who fight monsters or fly in the clouds, but those who are able to save themselves every day with the intention of making their lives fuller and bring happiness to those around them.