We can’t try to wait for someone who doesn’t want to come to us, why? What is at stake are our illusions and our well-being, that is, our vision of life.
Being available to someone who ignores us or doesn’t value us is very bad for us and reduces our emotional abilities, upseting our world and making our lives dependent on someone else.
- In this sense.
- It is said that the only way to avoid these problems is to link our lives to goals and objectives.
- Not to people or objects.
- The secret is in us.
This inner work is not as easy as it seems, we must first be prepared to eliminate the false beliefs that bother us, let’s see what the process looks like more closely?
Do you live with hope but don’t even know what to expect?
Sometimes the expectations of others or the world afflict us, but the truth is that it is difficult to eliminate them, because we need them to live and organize.
We must keep in mind that the fact that we do not guide our lives according to the expectations and decisions of others does not mean that we should stop looking at the rest of the world, that is, this liberation is not about being selfish moving forward alone.
When we begin to free ourselves, we embark on the path of honesty and responsibility to ourselves. What may initially seem tedious will give us peace and quiet over time.
Right now you realize that you have the reins of your own life, exclusively, to be happy you don’t have to wait for one person or another, because happiness is in you.
On the other hand, it is important that we assume that everything is changing and that we accept reality. In this world, there is nothing permanent.
Another anchor that keeps us motionless in the face of reality is the fear of emotional and sentimental failure, that fear arises as a huge mountain that no one dares to overcome, to overcome this you will have to disconnect from these beliefs, know how forgive yourself and do not punish yourself without reason, this will allow us to focus on what really matters: the present moment.
One way or another, we have to assume that the losses will happen sooner or later. The permanence of feelings and people is a very idyllic idea and different from reality.