We are no longer the same as we were at that particular time, when everything seemed so close and so distant at the same time: we will never be what we were before because life forces us to change. lucky that experiences have impacted us and that we have learned from them.
It is often easy to see that those around us have changed and, as a result, our relationship with them has also changed, at other times it seems very difficult to assimilate that we are also different and realize that the mistake is to look back. with today’s eyes.
- It seems fair to say that we generally define ourselves based on the key events that have marked us and that we know we will remember forever.
- These events can be the result of contact with reality.
- From a trip to a romantic disappointment.
- To the anguish of having to deal with a mortgage.
Suppose, for example, that you go to another country to spend a season: there you will have to adapt to local models of life, customs different from yours and thoughts that will open your mind a lot. Or, another example, you think you’re here I’ve found an unconditional friend and found out that’s not the case.
Whether the experience is good or bad, just fill us with feelings: we will never forget true happiness, besides being resurrected from its falls, what remains after crossing it will be the sculpture of who we are in the present moment: our essence. it’s the same thing, but we’re not the same anymore.
If we are forced to change individually, so are the others and therefore all the relationships we have in common. When does our social circle, family, friends, our love change?It’s good to be flexible in the face of change.
However, the changes may also have caused disorders: he thought he knew people very well and realized that he never knew a person completely because we are constantly growing.
“But what do you want me to say?
Time earns everything. Beating us
compassionless, terrible and brutally.
Because one day you find her on the street
kiss your face fleetingly and smile? Are you waiting for me?And part. ?
-Rodolfo Serrano-
When someone in our social circle leaves hurts a lot and it seems that our world is collapsing: only time and effort allow us to find that person and confirm that the wound is closed, once again we will realize that we are not the same as we used to be.
Time encourages us: it passes us, it shakes us, it teaches us, it reveals us and, above all, it does not leave us indifferent; in fact, any day, even if it seems lost, implies the following: we decide constantly, and when we don’t, we get carried away.
? When I thought I had all the answers
suddenly, all the questions have changed.
-Mario Benedetti-
There is nothing wrong with getting lost, even if it doesn’t seem so shallow: it doesn’t matter if we get lost in the sky, like when we’re born into a constant cloud of joy or if we get lost because we’re on the ground for a long time. Both will have been teachers and we will have set up a little more physically and psychologically.
The beautiful and important thing is to have the courage to continue to know each other and the certainty of knowing how and who we are, in this way we can give ourselves to people in total fullness and find in them homes of happiness that fill us. In other words, if we shine with our changes, we will help others shine with their changes.