We live in a world where customs weigh on us as obligations, many things we do out of solidarity end up becoming an obligation.
This is generally not explicit; one way or another, we end up realizing what others expect from us and feel compelled to do so.
- The problem is.
- When you give everything.
- Nothing is valued.
- This contrasts with what happens to people who do so recently; the least they do is highly appreciated.
“They are all rated freely at a high or low price, and no one is worth more than the value it gives itself. So, is being free or a slave up to you?
We often give everything we have, but it’s never enough, and when we don’t give them what they think they need, they accuse us of selfish.
It is important to note that these attitudes are not always based on selfishness, but on confusion and lack of competition and abandonment.
I mean, “give it your all? It can become a burden to the other, who thinks he can’t reward us. Sometimes it makes people angry, walk away or can’t act. “
Whatever happens, the important thing is to behave in moderation and not offer much to others, in a way we are the ones who put our price, so you have to be careful when we give ourselves to others.
“Get rid of those who doubt you, join those who value you and love those who support you. “
? Paulo Coelho?
If we want to be free, we must get rid of the selfishness to which we are subjected. Just because someone we care about doesn’t mean we expect something from us doesn’t mean we have to.
First, we must unlearn that sacrifices make us better people; in doing so, we neglect or neglect an emotional and physical part that is very important to our happiness.
When someone intentionally hurts us and demands something from us, that person doesn’t deserve to stay with us, it’s time to stop supporting them and say goodbye, it makes us stronger.
When we look at this situation, it is normal to feel uncomfortable or injured, we must maintain concentration to be constructive and not punish anyone, especially ourselves.
To get rid of speculators it is not necessary to be aggressive, but assertive and persistent. Start small so you can communicate your needs without feeling guilty.
Talk to the first person and start the dialogue with phrases like “Are there situations where I feel disrespectful?Instead of “You don’t value me. “
The other only values us if we value ourselves. This helps us reject abusive claims that do nothing good and understand what is good for us.
“Always remember that you have the right to be respected and you must be careful that no one steals your ability to feel what you are worth and accept the recognition you deserve. “