I look around and see people without dreams, without hope, trapped in situations that do not make them happy, that exhaust them, it seems that we are abandoning ourselves, that we are not recognized for who we are, we do not know what we can become, because we do not even think about that possibility.
They are people without enthusiasm, without plans and without the courage to recognize that they still have the power to define their future, are defined by their education, work, marital status or personal condition, but not by their talents or values. of what they have received, but not of the projects they have carried out, they have abandoned everything that made them dream of a conventional life in which, at every moment, the right thing is done.
- Why are so many people who let life take the reins.
- Justifying themselves in the same thought to which they have resigned themselves: that everything is already established or written?How do you give up your dreams without making an effort to change and look beyond?The horizon?.
The time is what it is, we can’t get rid of it. The situation we find ourselves in is the result of our decisions and experiences; In short, different conjunctions. It may not be what we expected, what we thought we deserved or what we thought it should be, but we’re here. The contrast between who we were in the past and who we are now gives us clues to our evolution.
The present can be our best friend or the most staunch of enemies, the bars that bind us or the springboard that pushes us forward to achieve our dreams, it all depends on how we see it, because as long as we cannot predict the future or predict the obstacles we will face or the people we will encounter, we can decide what attitude we want to adopt in the face of what is to come.
Knowing ourselves, knowing how we are now, and choosing how we want to focus our lives to focus our path is possible and important, otherwise we will be nothing more than a puppet of circumstances. The goal is to embrace our character, accept our shortcomings, admit our limitations and believe that we can continue, in this way we will open up space for personal growth and get rid of the sense of stagnation that often overlaps us.
We are much more than our failures, our limits and our mistakes, it is not they that prevent us from doing anything or define us, but are a starting point to take this unexpected turn, rethly how to overcome the situation or grow through the challenge posed.
It is not our mistakes and limitations that define our potential, but our ability to adapt to the different circumstances chosen and imposed, in the end we do not have to lead our lives, but ourselves, in this way we will always control and assume responsibility for the most important thing: our decisions.
In this way, what we can become depends on our commitment to ourselves and the courage to challenge our present and what?Our place in the world is not defined because we have the power to choose where we want to be and what we can become, the question is: do we want to participate and be the protagonists or do we prefer to see life go by?we prefer the comfortable situation of the victims, do we want to be the ones who look or those who do?
However, is it essential to move forward to learn to let go of everything that makes us slaves, be they people, feelings, objects or actions?Overcome our toxic attachments to free us.
We are often trapped in what may have been and was not, lamenting our faults, both material and personal, caught up in our expectations without being able to seek a cure How many times do we try to control the uncontrollable!
While the future is unpredictable and full of the uncertainty that frightens us in love, it also has some power to influence and change us, but no more than our actions and decisions, the goal is to open this possibility.
That’s why we have to learn to let go. We must learn to act even if we are not the only ones determining the end result, we must forgive, abandon resentment and anger, we will learn to accept who we are, because otherwise growth and evolution, on our own initiative, will be impossible This, and not another, is the first step in the recovery from the helm.