Something always breaks inside after a goodbye. We can say that our illusions, hopes or feelings are shattered. From there, that part of us is not rebuilt and can cause a lot of suffering.
People who at some point in their life had to say goodbye to something or someone very important know that after a goodbye they are not the same. It makes us feel some nostalgia and sadness.
- Farewell is like a grieving process.
- It can be very painful and we stick to the impossible.
- Because we cannot believe what happened.
- It can disturb us and transform the traces that this farewell has left us.
People change and with that changes their relationship with the world, this happens even against our will, even when we are willing to suffer and right?, something we think we need.
As we have said many times, this sense of necessity restricts our freedom and subjects us to the expectations and behaviors of others, if we do not pay attention to this aspect, we will be an ‘easy prey’ of toxic relationships.
On the other hand, every farewell is a sweet suffering, it may seem paradoxical, but it is sweet because it makes us feel the bitter taste of the moment and offers us the opportunity to rejoice in the pleasant taste that will come next: emotional freedom. .
Sometimes it takes goodbyes to see us again. It is very difficult because we live attached to certain feelings, people, places or activities.
It is necessary to realize when a stage of life ends, if you insist on staying longer than necessary you will lose the joy of living and the meaning of life, call it what you want: close the cycles, close the doors or close the chapters.
The important thing is to close them and let go of the moments that made us suffer.
We cannot live in the present thinking of the past. What happened happened, happened; Let go and let go? We cannot be children forever, nor teenagers, employees of a non-existent company or attached to someone who no longer loves us.
Everything happens and you have to let it go!
? Paulo Coelho?
Forget the past and start a new stage. Healing the emotional wounds of our past is painful and complicated. We all have painful experiences that upset our present and can even determine our future.
It’s normal to feel a little dazed by the emotional confusion that a farewell can cause.
However, we have to get to the bottom of the well, that is, we have to see to believe that we have lost and that we will not recover. It was fine while it lasted, but we have to close this cycle of our lives to move on.
Thank you when you have to say goodbye. Each farewell is a learning opportunity that will help you explore everything life has in store for you.
Imagine how nice it can be to be yourself again, accept and drop everything that doesn’t belong to you and walk at a fast pace, there is no word in the dictionary that can define this wonderful feeling.