We inspire trust in others when our actions confirm and repeat our words. “Does action express priorities, ” said Mahatma Gandhi with such a simple mind?Express them faithfully. Actions are a sign of truth, of authenticity; even inaction is also an action in itself.
Actions can accompany or contradict words. Words are most reliable when accompanied by facts that point in the same direction and direction Acts to sustain the truthfulness of prayers in which desires, promises, regrets or intentions travel, Acts nourish confidence and relax us, which we are not always alert to. are important for the tension to be reduced and for us to be prepared to make the most of this relationship.
- You may feel identified with this part if you are someone who easily trusts people who are important to you.
- When you trust them.
- You trust the foundation of consistency between what they say and what they do for you.
- His words are enough.
- In fact.
- Friends who.
- Although not very expressive in their emotions.
- Have proven to be by your side at all times will come to mind.
At the same time, people you blindly trusted will come to mind in words so beautiful that they were once uttered, people in love with promises who then showed that they did not live up to what they had promised.
Words, if not accompanied by facts that confirm them, are fragile in the space they travel through and in memory, they damage confidence and undermine it until it becomes very difficult to find it. your mental GPS points in the other direction. His inaction also shows what he prioritizes in life.
Think of those people who filled your heart with beautiful, well-kept words: were they so precious?How can we not be numbed by this balance of beauty and hope?Do people want to trust you? No one wants to hurt themselves, when there’s a lot of accumulated damage, but our real intention is to want to trust.
Trust reassures our inner world. It is a security that human beings need so as not to lose their minds. We need consistency. Inconsistency destabilizes us, puts us at risk and makes us vigilant, so when someone repeatedly hurts our trust, we have to take the next step.
If we do not value our trust, we will be involved in relationships in which we will be trampled over and over again, if we do not respect each other they will not respect us, so it is important to review and evaluate these people to which we offer this beautiful and fragile act, since it is trustworthy, sometimes it becomes a real act of bravery, does it seem familiar?
Try to act on your words. Don’t say words for anything if you’re not sure they really represent your true feelings. Besides, don’t say if you think you’re not ready to act. He also values your own words. When there is coherence between what you say and what you do, it will inspire confidence and safety in the other, and you avoid cognitive dissonance, which can also be a nuisance for those who practice it.
Trust and security are the fundamental pillars of any important affective relationship, friends are many, but AMIS with capital letters are not so easy to count, these are the ones you know are written in capital letters and bold, because they are on your side. Because your words and actions have been chained in such a way that there is no possible insecurity to continue your relationship.
Think about it: Do you prefer to continue living with false hopes of acts that never come, words that evaporate as they cease to exist, or do you prefer a truth in time, though painful, but consistent with what the other feels?In the end, it is always the truth that shows us the authentic way, not the false hopes with its deceptive horizons.