It is essential to learn to impose limits. Unfortunately, however, many people ignore the limits of never overcoming themselves, because there are individuals who do not seem to have a shred of common sense, thinking only of themselves and of no one else, will act as they wish, speaking without reflection, judging without analysis, hurting without guilt, delegating to other tasks that are theirs.
If the limits are not met, there will always be someone who will make a package. Don’t take the other person’s work for you. It is common in work environments to have someone who usually takes time off and leaves their responsibilities at their expense. Hidden under various excuses, the person asks for help all the time, not to learn, but to get rid of his obligations, while the co-worker does the work for him. If we don’t know how to say no, we’ll accumulate tasks that aren’t ours and hurt each other, while the other is still beautiful, light and cowardly.
- Avoid emphasizing to advise anyone who listens to someone but yourself.
- Trying to clarify things with those who need help is something we need to do.
- But repeating and repeating and advising again.
- Without the other person changing a point in their behavior.
- Will.
- In the end they exhaust us and unbalance us.
- Help is useless when the other person does not want to receive it.
- That is.
- Insisting on what has no future will make us need help.
Love also has limits, does not require, demands concessions, demands reciprocity, when love becomes weight, without return, insistence, emptiness and doubt is because the limits of the dignity that underpins it have already been lost. and self-love is not dissociated, but complemented and strengthened, without one overlapping. Overcoming the boundaries of the couple is disrespect, neglect, it is not love.
We must be aware that no matter how much we have helped someone, as soon as we impose a limit, we will be the target of their ingratitude and everything we have done will be forgotten; However, if we do not, we will be doomed to daily misfortune, for we will exhaust all our strength by forgetting ourselves on this path. We must also help ourselves, otherwise we will not even be able to help those who really need our love.