You don’t have to come so you’re not there. There are many ways to be punctual and even not to be present in someone’s life. The absence in the lives of those who love us is something to choose from. In these cases, you have to let him go.
We should stop looking for excuses to stay and say goodbye. But a farewell written in capital letters, to close all the gaps we could enter through. Lock it.
- In other words.
- Instead of letting go.
- What we need to learn is to walk ourselves when we live in a situation that wears out and has no solution.
When we are able to disconnect from something that has been imprisoning us for a long time, we managed to clear our minds and get rid of absences that we did not understand and that kept our lives tied to a thread.
Being able to say goodbye to someone who has never been like this means not going back, separating what enriches us from what we tire, taking care of our own worth, and s stop to crawl in tears through the crumbs of a love that only exists in our minds.
When there is no reciprocity or balance leans towards pain, the relationship loses all meaning and, therefore, all we can do is agonize until the seal is finished what was marrying our children.
As we let go of the threads, we will realize that moving on to the next step means freeing ourselves, growing up, and creating a new path. This new atmosphere will allow us to sow new emotions in a land here infertile.
You should always know when a stage of life ends, if we insist on staying there longer than necessary, we lose the joy and sense of the rest, closing cycles, or closing doors, or closing chapters, whatever you want to call it.
The important thing is to close them and let go of the moments of life that are closing.
We can’t be in the present to miss the past, without even wondering why. What happened, happened and we have to let go, we have to let go, we can’t be eternal children, late teenagers, employees of non-existent companies, or have connections with those who don’t want to be related to us.
The moments pass and you have to let them go!
? Paulo Coelho?
There are situations where people disappear from our lives thinking they can come back whenever they want, because they are sure that we will always be there, but we are not, we all deserve respect and absences are very high priced.
Blind love is not a sufficient guarantee for a successful relationship, so sometimes stories with suspension points need an end, our emotional well-being depends on it.
It is difficult to face a decisive farewell with the certainty that we will have to fight to heal the wound of abandonment. We fear the process because of our self-esteem, self-confidence and well-being.
But growth implies some disorientation that can cause distress. We must be aware that part of the path we are going down is uncertainty.
It is not comfortable, but it is worth considering that the change will result in our reconstruction and harmony with our interior, it is about being honest and demanding with our emotional partners, it is not always easy, but what you need is not always easy
Letting go of selfishness, unwarranted interests and absences will help us start a new stage in our lives, sow and reap the livelihood of our self-esteem and emotional growth.